Me and boyfie(both 20,F and M) have a thing where we sometimes play-fight before sex. We both enjoy it, we never do anything that can actually hurt the other and it’s basically a game about overpowering each other before sex.
Well, last time I got on top of him and playfully called him names, then bit him (which is usual for us). He got fake mad and went to turn us so he could be on top, but the edge of the bed was too close and I accidentally fell and hit my heard relatively hard.
Boyfriend freaked out, took me to the hospital and I’m completely fine. But now, he has admitted that he feels extremely guilty about hurting me. I asked if he would like to stop our game and he said that while he does really enjoy our little game, he is kind of terrified of hurting me again.
Is this a thing that can be fixed through communication? Obviously if my boyfriend wouldn’t feel comfortable wit it I don’t care to continue our little play-fights, but I don’t want for my boyfriend to constantly worry about hurting me especially since I like it rough. Any ideas?
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r/sex Me and boyfie(both 20,F and M) have a thing where we sometimes play-fight before sex. We both enjoy it, we never do anything that can actually hurt the other and it’s basically a game about overpowering each other before sex. Well, last time I got on top of him and playfully called him names, then bit him (which is usual for us). He got fake mad and went to turn us so he could be on top, but the edge of the bed was too close and I accidentally fell and hit my heard relatively hard. Boyfriend freaked out, took me to the hospital and I’m completely fine. But now, he has admitted that he feels extremely guilty about hurting me. I asked if he would like to stop our game and he said that while he does really enjoy our little game, he is kind of terrified of hurting me again. Is this a thing that can be fixed through communication? Obviously if my boyfriend wouldn’t feel comfortable wit it I don’t care to continue our little play-fights, but I don’t want for my boyfriend to constantly worry about hurting me especially since I like it rough. Any ideas? submitted by /u/Obvious_Skill_8995 [link] [comments]
Me and boyfie(both 20,F and M) have a thing where we sometimes play-fight before sex. We both enjoy it, we never do anything that can actually hurt the other and it’s basically a game about overpowering each other before sex.
Well, last time I got on top of him and playfully called him names, then bit him (which is usual for us). He got fake mad and went to turn us so he could be on top, but the edge of the bed was too close and I accidentally fell and hit my heard relatively hard.
Boyfriend freaked out, took me to the hospital and I’m completely fine. But now, he has admitted that he feels extremely guilty about hurting me. I asked if he would like to stop our game and he said that while he does really enjoy our little game, he is kind of terrified of hurting me again.
Is this a thing that can be fixed through communication? Obviously if my boyfriend wouldn’t feel comfortable wit it I don’t care to continue our little play-fights, but I don’t want for my boyfriend to constantly worry about hurting me especially since I like it rough. Any ideas?
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