am i a crazy nympho? i feel like it sometimes /u/Suitable_Preference7 Sex

im 21f and my bf is 21m

we have sex twice a week at most

if it happens more than once in a day hell probably froze over

every time we talk about it he says he wants to have more sex but it just doesnt happen, we live together and spend 90% of our free time together so idk what the issue is

ive started to believe its just because im not his type, he likes petite women with small breasts and im a curvy woman with huge tits

he says its ‘just variety’ but if im the single outlier to your entire attraction spectrum i feel like its more than variety

i literally ask him almost daily if he wants to have sex, i try lingerie, we go to the sex shop, everything i can do, it seems like the only time i can get his interest is if i literally grab his dick or show him sex positions to try and sometimes that doesnt even work

i just feel awful, like i see all over social media (reddit/fb) about couples our age and older who are non stop getting it on and im like, i get so cock deprived i skip foreplay just so he doesnt loose interest and get soft again

i can’t remember the last time he gave me and orgasm, hes offered but he always goes soft and then he makes it feel like a chore, not to mention ive tried telling him what hurts and feels good on my body but it never really sticks, ive just stopped trying and take what i can get, usually im bleeding from my clit for a few days after he tries fingering me or touching me, so i try really hard to skip that

we talked about how we view our sexuality and i think we understand it differently, i see his sexual needs as my responsibility and mine his, but he sees it as we are two people who have sexual needs that come together at times to show love or just be sexual with one another

what do i do, am i crazy or wrong? i feel so dirty and disgusting for wanting to have more sex with my own boyfriend its insane

eta: i have a free use kink, and so does he apparently, but i dont see it

he said it would mean much more to him if i appreciated the quality of our sex over the quantity and it felt like i just got slapped across the face, i want to stop having sex with him whenever he wants it even if im not exactly feeling it, its not fair for me to take care of all his sexual needs but im supposed to figure mine out is unfair

im 21f and my bf is 21m

we have sex twice a week at most

if it happens more than once in a day hell probably froze over

every time we talk about it he says he wants to have more sex but it just doesnt happen, we live together and spend 90% of our free time together so idk what the issue is

ive started to believe its just because im not his type, he likes petite women with small breasts and im a curvy woman with huge tits

he says its ‘just variety’ but if im the single outlier to your entire attraction spectrum i feel like its more than variety

i literally ask him almost daily if he wants to have sex, i try lingerie, we go to the sex shop, everything i can do, it seems like the only time i can get his interest is if i literally grab his dick or show him sex positions to try and sometimes that doesnt even work

i just feel awful, like i see all over social media (reddit/fb) about couples our age and older who are non stop getting it on and im like, i get so cock deprived i skip foreplay just so he doesnt loose interest and get soft again

i can’t remember the last time he gave me and orgasm, hes offered but he always goes soft and then he makes it feel like a chore, not to mention ive tried telling him what hurts and feels good on my body but it never really sticks, ive just stopped trying and take what i can get, usually im bleeding from my clit for a few days after he tries fingering me or touching me, so i try really hard to skip that

we talked about how we view our sexuality and i think we understand it differently, i see his sexual needs as my responsibility and mine his, but he sees it as we are two people who have sexual needs that come together at times to show love or just be sexual with one another

what do i do, am i crazy or wrong? i feel so dirty and disgusting for wanting to have more sex with my own boyfriend its insane

eta: i have a free use kink, and so does he apparently, but i dont see it

he said it would mean much more to him if i appreciated the quality of our sex over the quantity and it felt like i just got slapped across the face, i want to stop having sex with him whenever he wants it even if im not exactly feeling it, its not fair for me to take care of all his sexual needs but im supposed to figure mine out is unfair