Hey all,
First time really posting here for advice, but I (26M) noticed something weird recently that’s never happened before now and I would love some insight on ways to handle this. To put it plainly, in the past I’ve never had problems going 2-3 times with my wife (25F), with about 2-5 minutes of cooldown before going again. Usually I’ll go, then her, then me again at least one more time and by the time she’s finished, I’m good to go. This has been our relatively normal for a good while, and we even try to mix things up just to make things a bit more fun, which has been really fun!
Recently though (within the past like 2-3 weeks), I’ve noticed something weird going on with myself and not sure why. I’ve noticed that after my first time, it’s taking much more time for me to be ready to go again, more time than normal. But the weird thing is that I’ll be hard and ready to go and if she for instance wants to be on top, the second she sits down, I go soft and it’s infuriating because, as I’ve said a few times already, this has never happened to me before and it’s getting really discouraging because I feel like nothing has really changed with me internally. Sure I’ve been a tiny bit more anxious recently but I mean who doesn’t have a base line of anxiety these days? Plus when I’m with her, that anxiety is FAR from my mind, so it’s not like I’m in my head about anything.
If anyone has any advice, similar stories on how to help me get back to my “normal” I would love it because at this point it’s really starting to mess with my head
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r/sex Hey all, First time really posting here for advice, but I (26M) noticed something weird recently that’s never happened before now and I would love some insight on ways to handle this. To put it plainly, in the past I’ve never had problems going 2-3 times with my wife (25F), with about 2-5 minutes of cooldown before going again. Usually I’ll go, then her, then me again at least one more time and by the time she’s finished, I’m good to go. This has been our relatively normal for a good while, and we even try to mix things up just to make things a bit more fun, which has been really fun! Recently though (within the past like 2-3 weeks), I’ve noticed something weird going on with myself and not sure why. I’ve noticed that after my first time, it’s taking much more time for me to be ready to go again, more time than normal. But the weird thing is that I’ll be hard and ready to go and if she for instance wants to be on top, the second she sits down, I go soft and it’s infuriating because, as I’ve said a few times already, this has never happened to me before and it’s getting really discouraging because I feel like nothing has really changed with me internally. Sure I’ve been a tiny bit more anxious recently but I mean who doesn’t have a base line of anxiety these days? Plus when I’m with her, that anxiety is FAR from my mind, so it’s not like I’m in my head about anything. If anyone has any advice, similar stories on how to help me get back to my “normal” I would love it because at this point it’s really starting to mess with my head submitted by /u/FluffyWalrusFTW [link] [comments]
Hey all,
First time really posting here for advice, but I (26M) noticed something weird recently that’s never happened before now and I would love some insight on ways to handle this. To put it plainly, in the past I’ve never had problems going 2-3 times with my wife (25F), with about 2-5 minutes of cooldown before going again. Usually I’ll go, then her, then me again at least one more time and by the time she’s finished, I’m good to go. This has been our relatively normal for a good while, and we even try to mix things up just to make things a bit more fun, which has been really fun!
Recently though (within the past like 2-3 weeks), I’ve noticed something weird going on with myself and not sure why. I’ve noticed that after my first time, it’s taking much more time for me to be ready to go again, more time than normal. But the weird thing is that I’ll be hard and ready to go and if she for instance wants to be on top, the second she sits down, I go soft and it’s infuriating because, as I’ve said a few times already, this has never happened to me before and it’s getting really discouraging because I feel like nothing has really changed with me internally. Sure I’ve been a tiny bit more anxious recently but I mean who doesn’t have a base line of anxiety these days? Plus when I’m with her, that anxiety is FAR from my mind, so it’s not like I’m in my head about anything.
If anyone has any advice, similar stories on how to help me get back to my “normal” I would love it because at this point it’s really starting to mess with my head
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