I thought I was ready for a fwb relationship. The guy was nice and we spoke and had friendly banter up until we slept together.
His side of the conversation died and he only seeks contact when he’s horny or desperate. Or sees me interacting with another guy and starts talking to me then. When I text I get short answers back. Not much of the friends part happening really.
At the same time I am craving sex badly sometimes but I’m starting to realise I only enjoy when there is a connection. Reflecting on the sex we had it felt so forced like there was no awkward tension but some kind of distanced vibe. He did eat me out and pleasure me and it felt good at the moment didn’t have an orgasm and I can get one from someone just looking at me a certain way.I assume I was just too nervous. But I still get the feeling of being used.
I also noticed that being treated like this makes me want him more. Almost like I developed feelings of attachment. Its a good thing I’m stubborn and my pride is high so I can stay away. But this is so new to me. I like him but don’t want a relationship but do want to be the only one. It might also have to do with that I didn’t have sex for years and now I started my body up again for nothing.
I didn’t even go out of my way to find a fwb he approached me and it seems like I will have to go look for an actual FWB but that’s so much hassle. Simultaneously im convinced I have to stay abstinent and for my future partner csuse the sex will be better. But I can never be 100% sure and my hormones and pussy are just screaming DICKKKKK
I don’t even know where I am going with this post
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r/sex I thought I was ready for a fwb relationship. The guy was nice and we spoke and had friendly banter up until we slept together. His side of the conversation died and he only seeks contact when he’s horny or desperate. Or sees me interacting with another guy and starts talking to me then. When I text I get short answers back. Not much of the friends part happening really. At the same time I am craving sex badly sometimes but I’m starting to realise I only enjoy when there is a connection. Reflecting on the sex we had it felt so forced like there was no awkward tension but some kind of distanced vibe. He did eat me out and pleasure me and it felt good at the moment didn’t have an orgasm and I can get one from someone just looking at me a certain way.I assume I was just too nervous. But I still get the feeling of being used. I also noticed that being treated like this makes me want him more. Almost like I developed feelings of attachment. Its a good thing I’m stubborn and my pride is high so I can stay away. But this is so new to me. I like him but don’t want a relationship but do want to be the only one. It might also have to do with that I didn’t have sex for years and now I started my body up again for nothing. I didn’t even go out of my way to find a fwb he approached me and it seems like I will have to go look for an actual FWB but that’s so much hassle. Simultaneously im convinced I have to stay abstinent and for my future partner csuse the sex will be better. But I can never be 100% sure and my hormones and pussy are just screaming DICKKKKK I don’t even know where I am going with this post submitted by /u/jessllynl [link] [comments]
I thought I was ready for a fwb relationship. The guy was nice and we spoke and had friendly banter up until we slept together.
His side of the conversation died and he only seeks contact when he’s horny or desperate. Or sees me interacting with another guy and starts talking to me then. When I text I get short answers back. Not much of the friends part happening really.
At the same time I am craving sex badly sometimes but I’m starting to realise I only enjoy when there is a connection. Reflecting on the sex we had it felt so forced like there was no awkward tension but some kind of distanced vibe. He did eat me out and pleasure me and it felt good at the moment didn’t have an orgasm and I can get one from someone just looking at me a certain way.I assume I was just too nervous. But I still get the feeling of being used.
I also noticed that being treated like this makes me want him more. Almost like I developed feelings of attachment. Its a good thing I’m stubborn and my pride is high so I can stay away. But this is so new to me. I like him but don’t want a relationship but do want to be the only one. It might also have to do with that I didn’t have sex for years and now I started my body up again for nothing.
I didn’t even go out of my way to find a fwb he approached me and it seems like I will have to go look for an actual FWB but that’s so much hassle. Simultaneously im convinced I have to stay abstinent and for my future partner csuse the sex will be better. But I can never be 100% sure and my hormones and pussy are just screaming DICKKKKK
I don’t even know where I am going with this post
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