Potential partner said he will need to tell me something before we have sex /u/Impossible_Phone1186 Sex

i’m (21F) into a new guy (21M) and i want to have sex with him. my whole sex life i’ve been in long term relationships so i don’t have many sexual partners and i dont prefer to use condoms. i’ve always had my partners get tested before we have sex and like to communicate that we’re not seeing other people on top of having a birth control implant. this new guy and i have great chemistry so far and are very attracted to each other. i won’t be able to see him for a few weeks but he said that before we have sex he has something he has to tell me. i asked him if it was bad and he said it’s “not great news” but he wants to have the conversation in person. I’m worried he has hpv/aids or something. i know very little about stis but i feel like if it’s that serious then maybe it’s an incurable thing? previously he had been open with me about having chlamydia few years ago, so would he have mentioned it then? is there anything better you guys think he could be talking about? if it is an incurable sti, what does that mean if i want to have sex with him? im scared—i don’t know what i should be prepared for or what these things would mean for the relationship. any advice would be

i’m (21F) into a new guy (21M) and i want to have sex with him. my whole sex life i’ve been in long term relationships so i don’t have many sexual partners and i dont prefer to use condoms. i’ve always had my partners get tested before we have sex and like to communicate that we’re not seeing other people on top of having a birth control implant. this new guy and i have great chemistry so far and are very attracted to each other. i won’t be able to see him for a few weeks but he said that before we have sex he has something he has to tell me. i asked him if it was bad and he said it’s “not great news” but he wants to have the conversation in person. I’m worried he has hpv/aids or something. i know very little about stis but i feel like if it’s that serious then maybe it’s an incurable thing? previously he had been open with me about having chlamydia few years ago, so would he have mentioned it then? is there anything better you guys think he could be talking about? if it is an incurable sti, what does that mean if i want to have sex with him? im scared—i don’t know what i should be prepared for or what these things would mean for the relationship. any advice would be