my best friend wants me to break up with my bf /u/Aggressive_Depth_427 Sex

my (19f) best friend (20f) wants me to breakup with my boyfriend(19m)

i feel very safe around my boyfriend and we have good communication

sometimes when we makeout and he tried to finger me ill swat his hand away if im not feeling it

he’ll move his hand around my v*gina as we makeout, he has told me it’s him like seeing if i end up wanting to be fingered i can give him the sign so i don’t feel pressured and also he wants me to be hornier, in hopes i’ll ask for being fingered, i have to say, i do enjoy his hand placement, whatever the reason

this happened when we were making out for a while and he tried a few times to put his hands down my pants, never pressuring me and then on i think the third or fourth try i was really horny so as he put his hand down he stopped when he made contact and asked me if i was sure and that i wanted this and i told him yes and let him finger me

hes asked me if i ever feel pressured by him and the answer is no

my friend seems to think this is crossing a line but we understand boundaries but she won’t leave me alone

she said that him trying more than once is bad, i told her that i’ll stop him if i don’t want it and he asked me when i finally ended up wanting to be fingered and she said “he asked you but his hand was down there”. and she asked what if u were someone who was more timid and shy

i think we understand each other enough where he knows that i’ll stop him if i don’t want something and that im not scared to tell him that. i also appreciate him checking that im not pressured even if his hand has barely touched me down there.

i genuinely don’t know the answer

my (19f) best friend (20f) wants me to breakup with my boyfriend(19m)

i feel very safe around my boyfriend and we have good communication

sometimes when we makeout and he tried to finger me ill swat his hand away if im not feeling it

he’ll move his hand around my v*gina as we makeout, he has told me it’s him like seeing if i end up wanting to be fingered i can give him the sign so i don’t feel pressured and also he wants me to be hornier, in hopes i’ll ask for being fingered, i have to say, i do enjoy his hand placement, whatever the reason

this happened when we were making out for a while and he tried a few times to put his hands down my pants, never pressuring me and then on i think the third or fourth try i was really horny so as he put his hand down he stopped when he made contact and asked me if i was sure and that i wanted this and i told him yes and let him finger me

hes asked me if i ever feel pressured by him and the answer is no

my friend seems to think this is crossing a line but we understand boundaries but she won’t leave me alone

she said that him trying more than once is bad, i told her that i’ll stop him if i don’t want it and he asked me when i finally ended up wanting to be fingered and she said “he asked you but his hand was down there”. and she asked what if u were someone who was more timid and shy

i think we understand each other enough where he knows that i’ll stop him if i don’t want something and that im not scared to tell him that. i also appreciate him checking that im not pressured even if his hand has barely touched me down there.

i genuinely don’t know the answer