I’ve (22f) been exploring my kinks for at least a few years now on my account here, in a solid research-fantasise way, and seem to have uncovered a great deal about myself. My struggle is, a lot of these sexual preferences are, well, a lot I guess.
I write smut about them, ask on different subs for hypothetical advice, ask around for other people’s experiences, etc. mostly as I feel a little uncomfortable going after a lot of it in person at this stage of my life.
I try to keep an open mind (within legality and consent) and just..feel it out. But I still struggle with the shame element.
I’m curious if this fades with age, or if there’s something genuinely problematic about how I navigate looking into my kinks (namely more taboo ones like inc-st (really the humiliation element, more than the inc-stuous part), cnc, humiliation, parentifying partners and very disproportionate age/experience/power dynamics in partnerships.
From other bdsm and sexually experienced people, what’s your take on this kind of thing?
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r/sex I’ve (22f) been exploring my kinks for at least a few years now on my account here, in a solid research-fantasise way, and seem to have uncovered a great deal about myself. My struggle is, a lot of these sexual preferences are, well, a lot I guess. I write smut about them, ask on different subs for hypothetical advice, ask around for other people’s experiences, etc. mostly as I feel a little uncomfortable going after a lot of it in person at this stage of my life. I try to keep an open mind (within legality and consent) and just..feel it out. But I still struggle with the shame element. I’m curious if this fades with age, or if there’s something genuinely problematic about how I navigate looking into my kinks (namely more taboo ones like inc-st (really the humiliation element, more than the inc-stuous part), cnc, humiliation, parentifying partners and very disproportionate age/experience/power dynamics in partnerships. From other bdsm and sexually experienced people, what’s your take on this kind of thing? submitted by /u/dorapinkykitty [link] [comments]
I’ve (22f) been exploring my kinks for at least a few years now on my account here, in a solid research-fantasise way, and seem to have uncovered a great deal about myself. My struggle is, a lot of these sexual preferences are, well, a lot I guess.
I write smut about them, ask on different subs for hypothetical advice, ask around for other people’s experiences, etc. mostly as I feel a little uncomfortable going after a lot of it in person at this stage of my life.
I try to keep an open mind (within legality and consent) and just..feel it out. But I still struggle with the shame element.
I’m curious if this fades with age, or if there’s something genuinely problematic about how I navigate looking into my kinks (namely more taboo ones like inc-st (really the humiliation element, more than the inc-stuous part), cnc, humiliation, parentifying partners and very disproportionate age/experience/power dynamics in partnerships.
From other bdsm and sexually experienced people, what’s your take on this kind of thing?
submitted by /u/dorapinkykitty
[link] [comments]