I hate having sex with my boyfriend. I F17 and my boyfriend M18 have been dating for almost 3 months now, before we started dating I was a virgin and haven’t even kissed a guy, but since I have been with him he pushed me out of my comfort zone with anything sex related. On our first date he asked if I wanted to go home with him and I said no- on our second date he asked how many dates till we have sex
anything thats not sexual is perfect, he’s a great guy and he is so good to me but when ever somthing sexual comes up he changes. He knows I don’t like giving Head but he has a way of convincing me. He asks and if I say no he acts disappointed and cold. I dont want him to act like that so u give in.
He does with sex too, sex is very painful for me since i am pretty petite and he is 6’4 with a big dick maybe 8inches but it’s wide, almost everytime we have sex which has been maybe 4 times I cry it’s so painful. I say things like ow, slow down, and go softer which he dooes for a few seconds, but then goes back to what he was originally doing. I have never in my life had an orgasm because he cares more about his pleasure than mine, I brought it up and he always brushes it off. He makes sexual comments about EVERYTHING, I tell him to stop and he laughs it off. I don’t like sex. I dont like giving Head. Or at least not the way we do it.
im so stuck because he is so perfect but the sexual part of a relationship is hell. Please give advice!
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r/sex I hate having sex with my boyfriend. I F17 and my boyfriend M18 have been dating for almost 3 months now, before we started dating I was a virgin and haven’t even kissed a guy, but since I have been with him he pushed me out of my comfort zone with anything sex related. On our first date he asked if I wanted to go home with him and I said no- on our second date he asked how many dates till we have sex anything thats not sexual is perfect, he’s a great guy and he is so good to me but when ever somthing sexual comes up he changes. He knows I don’t like giving Head but he has a way of convincing me. He asks and if I say no he acts disappointed and cold. I dont want him to act like that so u give in. He does with sex too, sex is very painful for me since i am pretty petite and he is 6’4 with a big dick maybe 8inches but it’s wide, almost everytime we have sex which has been maybe 4 times I cry it’s so painful. I say things like ow, slow down, and go softer which he dooes for a few seconds, but then goes back to what he was originally doing. I have never in my life had an orgasm because he cares more about his pleasure than mine, I brought it up and he always brushes it off. He makes sexual comments about EVERYTHING, I tell him to stop and he laughs it off. I don’t like sex. I dont like giving Head. Or at least not the way we do it. im so stuck because he is so perfect but the sexual part of a relationship is hell. Please give advice! submitted by /u/CharacterPair7747 [link] [comments]
I hate having sex with my boyfriend. I F17 and my boyfriend M18 have been dating for almost 3 months now, before we started dating I was a virgin and haven’t even kissed a guy, but since I have been with him he pushed me out of my comfort zone with anything sex related. On our first date he asked if I wanted to go home with him and I said no- on our second date he asked how many dates till we have sex
anything thats not sexual is perfect, he’s a great guy and he is so good to me but when ever somthing sexual comes up he changes. He knows I don’t like giving Head but he has a way of convincing me. He asks and if I say no he acts disappointed and cold. I dont want him to act like that so u give in.
He does with sex too, sex is very painful for me since i am pretty petite and he is 6’4 with a big dick maybe 8inches but it’s wide, almost everytime we have sex which has been maybe 4 times I cry it’s so painful. I say things like ow, slow down, and go softer which he dooes for a few seconds, but then goes back to what he was originally doing. I have never in my life had an orgasm because he cares more about his pleasure than mine, I brought it up and he always brushes it off. He makes sexual comments about EVERYTHING, I tell him to stop and he laughs it off. I don’t like sex. I dont like giving Head. Or at least not the way we do it.
im so stuck because he is so perfect but the sexual part of a relationship is hell. Please give advice!
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