hey all, first time poster here so i apologise for any lack of structure. I (21m) and my beautiful partner (22f) have been dating for several years, we’ve always done the deed together and our sex life is great, i’m naturally a giver and always strive to pleasure her even if i don’t get anything in return as i always put my partners pleasure/needs above mine. (i know some people may disagree with this but i’d go to the ends of the earth for this woman)
Recently we’ve been looking at some nsfw stuff for shock value and laughs while we smoke up and relax, she hasn’t really looked at pornography or anything similar in her lifetime so it’s relatively new for her. I too haven’t taken much interest besides the ordinary stupid young teenage boy phase.
She’s said she doesn’t find any interest in it and wouldn’t watch it without me or watch it for sexual reasons, I too am the same as i find it weird and definitely not something we’d watch while doing the deed. However whilst scrolling through either a porn site or twitter for example, we’d go through and explore all there is to offer and for some reason i want her to explore freely and sexually? writing this my thoughts conflict as literally earlier i said i find it weird and wouldn’t want to watch it while doing the deed, but something enthralled me about her finding her kinks and becoming more sexually open. Now for a little added context she’s told me she doesn’t have any kinks or fetishes so she doesn’t search up anything specific and this also goes for by when we’re intimate.
Would this be a good or bad idea to get her to explore her kinks? I do feel like she hasn’t been able to see certain things that she may or may not like, and would love to let her let loose, i definitely won’t push it onto her if that’s not what she wants but i guess a part of me wants her to be more freaky and not worry about hurting me in the process.
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r/sex hey all, first time poster here so i apologise for any lack of structure. I (21m) and my beautiful partner (22f) have been dating for several years, we’ve always done the deed together and our sex life is great, i’m naturally a giver and always strive to pleasure her even if i don’t get anything in return as i always put my partners pleasure/needs above mine. (i know some people may disagree with this but i’d go to the ends of the earth for this woman) Recently we’ve been looking at some nsfw stuff for shock value and laughs while we smoke up and relax, she hasn’t really looked at pornography or anything similar in her lifetime so it’s relatively new for her. I too haven’t taken much interest besides the ordinary stupid young teenage boy phase. She’s said she doesn’t find any interest in it and wouldn’t watch it without me or watch it for sexual reasons, I too am the same as i find it weird and definitely not something we’d watch while doing the deed. However whilst scrolling through either a porn site or twitter for example, we’d go through and explore all there is to offer and for some reason i want her to explore freely and sexually? writing this my thoughts conflict as literally earlier i said i find it weird and wouldn’t want to watch it while doing the deed, but something enthralled me about her finding her kinks and becoming more sexually open. Now for a little added context she’s told me she doesn’t have any kinks or fetishes so she doesn’t search up anything specific and this also goes for by when we’re intimate. Would this be a good or bad idea to get her to explore her kinks? I do feel like she hasn’t been able to see certain things that she may or may not like, and would love to let her let loose, i definitely won’t push it onto her if that’s not what she wants but i guess a part of me wants her to be more freaky and not worry about hurting me in the process. submitted by /u/ovclusion [link] [comments]
hey all, first time poster here so i apologise for any lack of structure. I (21m) and my beautiful partner (22f) have been dating for several years, we’ve always done the deed together and our sex life is great, i’m naturally a giver and always strive to pleasure her even if i don’t get anything in return as i always put my partners pleasure/needs above mine. (i know some people may disagree with this but i’d go to the ends of the earth for this woman)
Recently we’ve been looking at some nsfw stuff for shock value and laughs while we smoke up and relax, she hasn’t really looked at pornography or anything similar in her lifetime so it’s relatively new for her. I too haven’t taken much interest besides the ordinary stupid young teenage boy phase.
She’s said she doesn’t find any interest in it and wouldn’t watch it without me or watch it for sexual reasons, I too am the same as i find it weird and definitely not something we’d watch while doing the deed. However whilst scrolling through either a porn site or twitter for example, we’d go through and explore all there is to offer and for some reason i want her to explore freely and sexually? writing this my thoughts conflict as literally earlier i said i find it weird and wouldn’t want to watch it while doing the deed, but something enthralled me about her finding her kinks and becoming more sexually open. Now for a little added context she’s told me she doesn’t have any kinks or fetishes so she doesn’t search up anything specific and this also goes for by when we’re intimate.
Would this be a good or bad idea to get her to explore her kinks? I do feel like she hasn’t been able to see certain things that she may or may not like, and would love to let her let loose, i definitely won’t push it onto her if that’s not what she wants but i guess a part of me wants her to be more freaky and not worry about hurting me in the process.
submitted by /u/ovclusion
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