I (26M) don’t feel good about my gf (23F) not showing any desire/kink other than satisfying what I like. /u/Automatic_Career9654 Sex

We’ve been together for 2 years and while our sex life is not going very well lately because of some problems, it’s generally good for me.

I’ve always shared my kinks (as weird as they can get xd) and she is often on board to “satisfy” them and says she likes to see how much it turns me on.

However, I would love her to show sexual fantasies or kinks of her own, but she doesn’t seem to have anything other than getting turned on by satisfying what I like.

When I try to ask her how can I make her feel confortable enough for her to share her own fantasies, she says she does not think she can have kinks like me and that I should not force it.

Should I just leave it as it is? I have trouble understanding how she feels as it’s not natural for me, and I don’t think she’s communicating much. It would be nice if the sex is less one sided.

We’ve been together for 2 years and while our sex life is not going very well lately because of some problems, it’s generally good for me.

I’ve always shared my kinks (as weird as they can get xd) and she is often on board to “satisfy” them and says she likes to see how much it turns me on.

However, I would love her to show sexual fantasies or kinks of her own, but she doesn’t seem to have anything other than getting turned on by satisfying what I like.

When I try to ask her how can I make her feel confortable enough for her to share her own fantasies, she says she does not think she can have kinks like me and that I should not force it.

Should I just leave it as it is? I have trouble understanding how she feels as it’s not natural for me, and I don’t think she’s communicating much. It would be nice if the sex is less one sided.