How do I orgasm with a partner? /u/Lanky_Outcome1075 Sex

I’m a 25F that has never orgasmed with a partner. I can orgasm on my own with either my hand or a vibrator (hand takes longer).

I used to think it was just my ex. He was my first, we were together a long time, but our sex life wasn’t good and he wasn’t really open to feedback and preferred quick sex to orgasm whereas I really enjoy foreplay and the experience.

But since we broke up, I’ve had sex with a few men and I can’t get over the edge. The last guy I was with had me right on the edge of an orgasm and really put the effort in for almost an hour with oral, clit stimulation, fingering, PIV, even doing the extra quirky things that turn me on. I still couldn’t get there. It all felt really good so I think it’s a mental block.

Tips on where to start with this issue? I know it’s not all about orgasm and a lot of women struggle with this. But, if there are methods to help I’d at least like to try.

I’m a 25F that has never orgasmed with a partner. I can orgasm on my own with either my hand or a vibrator (hand takes longer).

I used to think it was just my ex. He was my first, we were together a long time, but our sex life wasn’t good and he wasn’t really open to feedback and preferred quick sex to orgasm whereas I really enjoy foreplay and the experience.

But since we broke up, I’ve had sex with a few men and I can’t get over the edge. The last guy I was with had me right on the edge of an orgasm and really put the effort in for almost an hour with oral, clit stimulation, fingering, PIV, even doing the extra quirky things that turn me on. I still couldn’t get there. It all felt really good so I think it’s a mental block.

Tips on where to start with this issue? I know it’s not all about orgasm and a lot of women struggle with this. But, if there are methods to help I’d at least like to try.