Looking for some perspective here. So in my previous relationship, anytime I got a blowjob, I always gave her oral back. It was ALWAYS a two way street. I wanted to feel good, so did she. That made sense to me.
In my current relationship though, she usually likes giving and hardly ever wants it back. We have sex on a normal basis, but she just isn’t nearly as needing for herself to be pleased as my previous partner. Overall, I absolutely love to recieve and she is amazing at it, so I can’t really complain. I would enjoy returning the act. A part of me WANTS her to want it back though.
I suppose I’m just looking for some perspective from other women (or men?). Do you ever give oral and not want anything in return? And if so, how or why? For me, I couldn’t imagine eating a girl out and then just quitting. I’d be so unbelievably turned on from the act, that I’d probably get serious blue-balls if I didn’t get off shortly after. Like, does giving a blowjob not get you super turned-on and want something in return? It’s just so opposite for me that it’s hard to comprehend. Or is that a sign of a low sex drive on her end? Maybe men and women are wired a little different?
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r/sex Looking for some perspective here. So in my previous relationship, anytime I got a blowjob, I always gave her oral back. It was ALWAYS a two way street. I wanted to feel good, so did she. That made sense to me. In my current relationship though, she usually likes giving and hardly ever wants it back. We have sex on a normal basis, but she just isn’t nearly as needing for herself to be pleased as my previous partner. Overall, I absolutely love to recieve and she is amazing at it, so I can’t really complain. I would enjoy returning the act. A part of me WANTS her to want it back though. I suppose I’m just looking for some perspective from other women (or men?). Do you ever give oral and not want anything in return? And if so, how or why? For me, I couldn’t imagine eating a girl out and then just quitting. I’d be so unbelievably turned on from the act, that I’d probably get serious blue-balls if I didn’t get off shortly after. Like, does giving a blowjob not get you super turned-on and want something in return? It’s just so opposite for me that it’s hard to comprehend. Or is that a sign of a low sex drive on her end? Maybe men and women are wired a little different? submitted by /u/coolerooni [link] [comments]
Looking for some perspective here. So in my previous relationship, anytime I got a blowjob, I always gave her oral back. It was ALWAYS a two way street. I wanted to feel good, so did she. That made sense to me.
In my current relationship though, she usually likes giving and hardly ever wants it back. We have sex on a normal basis, but she just isn’t nearly as needing for herself to be pleased as my previous partner. Overall, I absolutely love to recieve and she is amazing at it, so I can’t really complain. I would enjoy returning the act. A part of me WANTS her to want it back though.
I suppose I’m just looking for some perspective from other women (or men?). Do you ever give oral and not want anything in return? And if so, how or why? For me, I couldn’t imagine eating a girl out and then just quitting. I’d be so unbelievably turned on from the act, that I’d probably get serious blue-balls if I didn’t get off shortly after. Like, does giving a blowjob not get you super turned-on and want something in return? It’s just so opposite for me that it’s hard to comprehend. Or is that a sign of a low sex drive on her end? Maybe men and women are wired a little different?
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