Me and my wife were able to overcome a dead bedroom that we’ve had since 20 years. We had sex maybe a couple of times per year for the most part of our marriage. I wasn’t a good husband, nor was i a good lover. I always tried to give her pleasure, however she was very self conscious, didn’t allow me to get down on her nor to try anything other than missionary then her on top without any foreplay. That way, it took me usualy from 30-50 minutes until i came. She noticed how long it’s starting to take me, she became even more self conscious.
I was able to turn my life around. Took care of my body, health and mind. My wife started to tag along to the gym, my diet changes influenced her too. Long story short, we started having sex about 3-4 times per week, plus we are finally experimenting and focusing on providing her pleasure.
I bounced the idea of trying oral on her, she accepted, now she’s loving it so much, that we are starting each time off with a 15 minute session of me going down on her, or preferably, her sitting down on my face. We both noticed the giant change it made on how PIV feels afterwards. And that’s where the problem starts…
Her pussy is so tight and throbbing after the oral, that i can’t last more than 2 or 3 minutes… It’s like i’m making 10 thrusts and already trying to distract myself from the O comming….
I can’t complain overall, the situation is much better than it was for the 20 years. But the last thing i want is for this to lead to frustration for her. I see that she’s happy that “the tables turned”. But i need to get better quick…
Please give me some advice folks.
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r/sex Me and my wife were able to overcome a dead bedroom that we’ve had since 20 years. We had sex maybe a couple of times per year for the most part of our marriage. I wasn’t a good husband, nor was i a good lover. I always tried to give her pleasure, however she was very self conscious, didn’t allow me to get down on her nor to try anything other than missionary then her on top without any foreplay. That way, it took me usualy from 30-50 minutes until i came. She noticed how long it’s starting to take me, she became even more self conscious. I was able to turn my life around. Took care of my body, health and mind. My wife started to tag along to the gym, my diet changes influenced her too. Long story short, we started having sex about 3-4 times per week, plus we are finally experimenting and focusing on providing her pleasure. I bounced the idea of trying oral on her, she accepted, now she’s loving it so much, that we are starting each time off with a 15 minute session of me going down on her, or preferably, her sitting down on my face. We both noticed the giant change it made on how PIV feels afterwards. And that’s where the problem starts… Her pussy is so tight and throbbing after the oral, that i can’t last more than 2 or 3 minutes… It’s like i’m making 10 thrusts and already trying to distract myself from the O comming…. I can’t complain overall, the situation is much better than it was for the 20 years. But the last thing i want is for this to lead to frustration for her. I see that she’s happy that “the tables turned”. But i need to get better quick… Please give me some advice folks. submitted by /u/UnfortunateFinisher [link] [comments]
Me and my wife were able to overcome a dead bedroom that we’ve had since 20 years. We had sex maybe a couple of times per year for the most part of our marriage. I wasn’t a good husband, nor was i a good lover. I always tried to give her pleasure, however she was very self conscious, didn’t allow me to get down on her nor to try anything other than missionary then her on top without any foreplay. That way, it took me usualy from 30-50 minutes until i came. She noticed how long it’s starting to take me, she became even more self conscious.
I was able to turn my life around. Took care of my body, health and mind. My wife started to tag along to the gym, my diet changes influenced her too. Long story short, we started having sex about 3-4 times per week, plus we are finally experimenting and focusing on providing her pleasure.
I bounced the idea of trying oral on her, she accepted, now she’s loving it so much, that we are starting each time off with a 15 minute session of me going down on her, or preferably, her sitting down on my face. We both noticed the giant change it made on how PIV feels afterwards. And that’s where the problem starts…
Her pussy is so tight and throbbing after the oral, that i can’t last more than 2 or 3 minutes… It’s like i’m making 10 thrusts and already trying to distract myself from the O comming….
I can’t complain overall, the situation is much better than it was for the 20 years. But the last thing i want is for this to lead to frustration for her. I see that she’s happy that “the tables turned”. But i need to get better quick…
Please give me some advice folks.
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