I’m only turned on by someone who equally wants it as much as me and is into the same things I’m into. Before being with her I was only in STRs and flings and they always wanted sex just as much or more than I did. They’d always ask in advance and plan for sex ahead of time, I almost never asked because I knew they would first. When having sex, whether they orgasm first or not they’d always want to go another round or more, and if not immediately than later on. There was so much comfort in knowing that whether I wanted it or not, it was there. The fact that I knew they wanted it, and in the same ways I did was a huge turn on, made the orgasms so much stronger and the ability to last multiple rounds easier. I finally found someone I truly love and want to be with long term, but the sex just isn’t there. She wants it really randomly and she usually orgasms first and it’s over quickly after that. She also sometimes likes to randomly mess around in really sexual ways and then it goes nowhere and we’re back to normal as if nothing just happened, in a span of minutes. She also acts disgusted by cum and started asking me to cum on a towel, which makes me feel gross and ashamed of myself when I’m finishing and totally kills my orgasm and overall interest in sex later on. Very different from the previous experiences where they’d ask me to cum all over them and they’d enjoy it and ask me to do it again half an hour later. I’ve talked to her about it to an extent but it’s hard to get past the fact that she may just be doing stuff for me which is my biggest turn-off. I truly love this girl and I’d become asexual for her if I could. Everything has been so good but it’s hard to look past the sex and not think about it so much.
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r/sex I’m only turned on by someone who equally wants it as much as me and is into the same things I’m into. Before being with her I was only in STRs and flings and they always wanted sex just as much or more than I did. They’d always ask in advance and plan for sex ahead of time, I almost never asked because I knew they would first. When having sex, whether they orgasm first or not they’d always want to go another round or more, and if not immediately than later on. There was so much comfort in knowing that whether I wanted it or not, it was there. The fact that I knew they wanted it, and in the same ways I did was a huge turn on, made the orgasms so much stronger and the ability to last multiple rounds easier. I finally found someone I truly love and want to be with long term, but the sex just isn’t there. She wants it really randomly and she usually orgasms first and it’s over quickly after that. She also sometimes likes to randomly mess around in really sexual ways and then it goes nowhere and we’re back to normal as if nothing just happened, in a span of minutes. She also acts disgusted by cum and started asking me to cum on a towel, which makes me feel gross and ashamed of myself when I’m finishing and totally kills my orgasm and overall interest in sex later on. Very different from the previous experiences where they’d ask me to cum all over them and they’d enjoy it and ask me to do it again half an hour later. I’ve talked to her about it to an extent but it’s hard to get past the fact that she may just be doing stuff for me which is my biggest turn-off. I truly love this girl and I’d become asexual for her if I could. Everything has been so good but it’s hard to look past the sex and not think about it so much. submitted by /u/khalilfustan [link] [comments]
I’m only turned on by someone who equally wants it as much as me and is into the same things I’m into. Before being with her I was only in STRs and flings and they always wanted sex just as much or more than I did. They’d always ask in advance and plan for sex ahead of time, I almost never asked because I knew they would first. When having sex, whether they orgasm first or not they’d always want to go another round or more, and if not immediately than later on. There was so much comfort in knowing that whether I wanted it or not, it was there. The fact that I knew they wanted it, and in the same ways I did was a huge turn on, made the orgasms so much stronger and the ability to last multiple rounds easier. I finally found someone I truly love and want to be with long term, but the sex just isn’t there. She wants it really randomly and she usually orgasms first and it’s over quickly after that. She also sometimes likes to randomly mess around in really sexual ways and then it goes nowhere and we’re back to normal as if nothing just happened, in a span of minutes. She also acts disgusted by cum and started asking me to cum on a towel, which makes me feel gross and ashamed of myself when I’m finishing and totally kills my orgasm and overall interest in sex later on. Very different from the previous experiences where they’d ask me to cum all over them and they’d enjoy it and ask me to do it again half an hour later. I’ve talked to her about it to an extent but it’s hard to get past the fact that she may just be doing stuff for me which is my biggest turn-off. I truly love this girl and I’d become asexual for her if I could. Everything has been so good but it’s hard to look past the sex and not think about it so much.
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