Could erotica audios set unrealistic standarts for myself? /u/Downtown-Fact-9120 Sex

Hey everyone!

So I (20, f, virgin) have been listening to erotica audios on quinn for about 1 year on and off now. Before that I tried watching porn which didn’t do anything for me and masturbating on it’s own has also never felt pleasurable to me. (Music also doesn’t help.)

Listening to audios on Quinn has really helped me with feeling sexual pleasure without having ever had a partner. Masturbating even while listening to the audios leaves me not very satisfied though, so I just listen to them at night in bed for the “imagination/fantasy” of it. Maybe I’m doing something wrong while masturbating but that’s another story i guess.

Now I’m worried that once I will have a partner I won’t get turnt on the same by them while having sex because I’m so used to connecting my own pleasure with hearing a bunch of giggling and moans and compliments in my ear for 20 minutes. I think of Quinn audios as more realistic than porn videos, but I’m not too sure if the audios actually also make me have unrealistic expectations.

My questions: – Is it realistic and usual to be this vocal during Sex? – Should I rather not listen to erotica as to not make myself get used to the sounds or can I listen to it carefree? – If my future partner is pretty much silent during sex, would it be alright of me to ask them to speak up a bit? (I think that I would enjoy being vocal myself but maybe they don’t and I don’t want to ask for too much and pressure them.)

Btw: I’m new to reddit and not a native English speaker.

Thanks! 🙂

Hey everyone!

So I (20, f, virgin) have been listening to erotica audios on quinn for about 1 year on and off now. Before that I tried watching porn which didn’t do anything for me and masturbating on it’s own has also never felt pleasurable to me. (Music also doesn’t help.)

Listening to audios on Quinn has really helped me with feeling sexual pleasure without having ever had a partner. Masturbating even while listening to the audios leaves me not very satisfied though, so I just listen to them at night in bed for the “imagination/fantasy” of it. Maybe I’m doing something wrong while masturbating but that’s another story i guess.

Now I’m worried that once I will have a partner I won’t get turnt on the same by them while having sex because I’m so used to connecting my own pleasure with hearing a bunch of giggling and moans and compliments in my ear for 20 minutes. I think of Quinn audios as more realistic than porn videos, but I’m not too sure if the audios actually also make me have unrealistic expectations.

My questions: – Is it realistic and usual to be this vocal during Sex? – Should I rather not listen to erotica as to not make myself get used to the sounds or can I listen to it carefree? – If my future partner is pretty much silent during sex, would it be alright of me to ask them to speak up a bit? (I think that I would enjoy being vocal myself but maybe they don’t and I don’t want to ask for too much and pressure them.)

Btw: I’m new to reddit and not a native English speaker.

Thanks! 🙂