My bf (24M) and I (23F) have been dating for about 6 months now, we haven’t had sex in about 2 months and it’s been affecting me quite a bit. When we first started seeing each other we would have sex once or twice a week but for the past 2 months all that has happened is I gave him head once. Now for some context my bf works quite a lot, and I’m in between jobs but actively searching. When I was working at the same time as him we were still having sex, he works between 5-7 days a week as he has a second job that he sometimes works on those 2 days off. I’ve brought this up to him and how it makes me feel like he doesn’t find me attractive, and how I would like to have intimacy more. He explained that he wants to have a routine set up (not exactly sure what kind of routine) and that he is just tired most days, which I totally understand. I know work is stressful for him and he talks about it a lot, but I was just hoping that some days he could put that aside so we could focus on us.( I would also like to make it known that in our first months of dating he was working just as much and we were still having sex, so I’m not sure what changed). Now I would like to make it known that our relationship is pretty much perfect in every other aspect, he compliments me, we cuddle, we hang out a lot and play games together. But when we first started seeing each other I mentioned how I have quite a high sex drive and he said the same. So I’m at a loss here and I feel like if we keep going months without it I might actually lose my mind. Anyone got any advice?
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r/sex My bf (24M) and I (23F) have been dating for about 6 months now, we haven’t had sex in about 2 months and it’s been affecting me quite a bit. When we first started seeing each other we would have sex once or twice a week but for the past 2 months all that has happened is I gave him head once. Now for some context my bf works quite a lot, and I’m in between jobs but actively searching. When I was working at the same time as him we were still having sex, he works between 5-7 days a week as he has a second job that he sometimes works on those 2 days off. I’ve brought this up to him and how it makes me feel like he doesn’t find me attractive, and how I would like to have intimacy more. He explained that he wants to have a routine set up (not exactly sure what kind of routine) and that he is just tired most days, which I totally understand. I know work is stressful for him and he talks about it a lot, but I was just hoping that some days he could put that aside so we could focus on us.( I would also like to make it known that in our first months of dating he was working just as much and we were still having sex, so I’m not sure what changed). Now I would like to make it known that our relationship is pretty much perfect in every other aspect, he compliments me, we cuddle, we hang out a lot and play games together. But when we first started seeing each other I mentioned how I have quite a high sex drive and he said the same. So I’m at a loss here and I feel like if we keep going months without it I might actually lose my mind. Anyone got any advice? submitted by /u/guacguac2000 [link] [comments]
My bf (24M) and I (23F) have been dating for about 6 months now, we haven’t had sex in about 2 months and it’s been affecting me quite a bit. When we first started seeing each other we would have sex once or twice a week but for the past 2 months all that has happened is I gave him head once. Now for some context my bf works quite a lot, and I’m in between jobs but actively searching. When I was working at the same time as him we were still having sex, he works between 5-7 days a week as he has a second job that he sometimes works on those 2 days off. I’ve brought this up to him and how it makes me feel like he doesn’t find me attractive, and how I would like to have intimacy more. He explained that he wants to have a routine set up (not exactly sure what kind of routine) and that he is just tired most days, which I totally understand. I know work is stressful for him and he talks about it a lot, but I was just hoping that some days he could put that aside so we could focus on us.( I would also like to make it known that in our first months of dating he was working just as much and we were still having sex, so I’m not sure what changed). Now I would like to make it known that our relationship is pretty much perfect in every other aspect, he compliments me, we cuddle, we hang out a lot and play games together. But when we first started seeing each other I mentioned how I have quite a high sex drive and he said the same. So I’m at a loss here and I feel like if we keep going months without it I might actually lose my mind. Anyone got any advice?
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