25/F (husband is 25 too) with two kids over the past four years. I struggled with intimacy for majority of the four years, with two miscarriages in between the two kids. Around 7 months ago I slowly started becoming the one to initiate things, but now it seems like it’s almost me all the time. Husband says ‘it will take some time getting used to’ as I had turned it down more often than not (which I totally can understand), but holy moly guys. It’s like a complete 180°. If I was able to I would have sex 3-5 times a day. I’m a SAHM so if nap times allow I will masturbate once or twice, but even then I still try having sex once or twice with my husband in the evening. I’ve started reading smut which is helping, but also not helping.😅 I mentioned the change to my doctor a few months ago, but she said it’s normal for hormones to balance out especially with lots of changes over years. But how much is too much? I feel like I’m coming off too strong so some days I will just wait for my husband to go to sleep to take care of myself instead. (Which we have talked about and he’s comfortable with).
Has anyone had similar experiences?
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r/sex 25/F (husband is 25 too) with two kids over the past four years. I struggled with intimacy for majority of the four years, with two miscarriages in between the two kids. Around 7 months ago I slowly started becoming the one to initiate things, but now it seems like it’s almost me all the time. Husband says ‘it will take some time getting used to’ as I had turned it down more often than not (which I totally can understand), but holy moly guys. It’s like a complete 180°. If I was able to I would have sex 3-5 times a day. I’m a SAHM so if nap times allow I will masturbate once or twice, but even then I still try having sex once or twice with my husband in the evening. I’ve started reading smut which is helping, but also not helping.😅 I mentioned the change to my doctor a few months ago, but she said it’s normal for hormones to balance out especially with lots of changes over years. But how much is too much? I feel like I’m coming off too strong so some days I will just wait for my husband to go to sleep to take care of myself instead. (Which we have talked about and he’s comfortable with). Has anyone had similar experiences? submitted by /u/responsiblebookworm [link] [comments]
25/F (husband is 25 too) with two kids over the past four years. I struggled with intimacy for majority of the four years, with two miscarriages in between the two kids. Around 7 months ago I slowly started becoming the one to initiate things, but now it seems like it’s almost me all the time. Husband says ‘it will take some time getting used to’ as I had turned it down more often than not (which I totally can understand), but holy moly guys. It’s like a complete 180°. If I was able to I would have sex 3-5 times a day. I’m a SAHM so if nap times allow I will masturbate once or twice, but even then I still try having sex once or twice with my husband in the evening. I’ve started reading smut which is helping, but also not helping.😅 I mentioned the change to my doctor a few months ago, but she said it’s normal for hormones to balance out especially with lots of changes over years. But how much is too much? I feel like I’m coming off too strong so some days I will just wait for my husband to go to sleep to take care of myself instead. (Which we have talked about and he’s comfortable with).
Has anyone had similar experiences?
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