21f soon to lose v-card /u/apocolypticsnake Sex

I’ve recently turned 21 before Christmas and I decided recently to change my dating app preferences from women to men and women (I am a lesbian) as I want to have sex with a guy first. I’ve been chatting to this guys for about a week and we have a time and place set up but I’ve realised I don’t know everything I should do in terms of before and after, during is fine.

I asked to buy him condoms as I am not on the pill so we’ve got that but do I still need to pee after? How long will I bleed for, hours or days? Will it be painful for a few seconds or for longer as the most I’ve used is a makeup brush handle? How do i stop from biting it?

Any other generalised answers people have for commonly asked questions would also be appreciated as I can’t focus on anything rn.

I know a week may seem rushed but i trust him and feel comfortable with him.

I’ve recently turned 21 before Christmas and I decided recently to change my dating app preferences from women to men and women (I am a lesbian) as I want to have sex with a guy first. I’ve been chatting to this guys for about a week and we have a time and place set up but I’ve realised I don’t know everything I should do in terms of before and after, during is fine.

I asked to buy him condoms as I am not on the pill so we’ve got that but do I still need to pee after? How long will I bleed for, hours or days? Will it be painful for a few seconds or for longer as the most I’ve used is a makeup brush handle? How do i stop from biting it?

Any other generalised answers people have for commonly asked questions would also be appreciated as I can’t focus on anything rn.

I know a week may seem rushed but i trust him and feel comfortable with him.