My (F26) boyfriend (M23) and I have been dating for a just under half a year but when it comes to bedroom since the beginning it has been somewhat awkward even though the attraction is there. He previously didn’t have sex for a few years after a bad break up ( I do believe this is true as family and friends have spoke about it) im not sure if this has any impact on it or that he hasn’t had many sexual partners. But when it comes to it it seems he’s only concentrated on him getting off than pleasuring me if he finishes in sex or oral he doesn’t go out of his way to make me finish I have to ask which makes me feel awkward and like I’m forcing him to, I enjoy making him finish It’s a turn on for me but because it’s not reciprocated it’s beginning to make me not enjoy it anymore like I’m just an object. Sex also feels rushed and bumpy he doesn’t do much to turn me on just goes straight to the deed. Also I feel like I’m constantly going out my way to do things that he likes but he doesn’t care to do stuff that I do. I have brought up multiples times to him that he is coming across as a bit selfish by not caring to pleasure me in which he will a couple times after I’ve discussed it but then straight back to how it was. It’s now to the point that when he’s trying to initiate sex part of me doesn’t want to because I feel just used. I love him and I want this to change but I don’t know what else to do other then bring it up again but the more I bring it up the more awkward it feels?
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r/sex My (F26) boyfriend (M23) and I have been dating for a just under half a year but when it comes to bedroom since the beginning it has been somewhat awkward even though the attraction is there. He previously didn’t have sex for a few years after a bad break up ( I do believe this is true as family and friends have spoke about it) im not sure if this has any impact on it or that he hasn’t had many sexual partners. But when it comes to it it seems he’s only concentrated on him getting off than pleasuring me if he finishes in sex or oral he doesn’t go out of his way to make me finish I have to ask which makes me feel awkward and like I’m forcing him to, I enjoy making him finish It’s a turn on for me but because it’s not reciprocated it’s beginning to make me not enjoy it anymore like I’m just an object. Sex also feels rushed and bumpy he doesn’t do much to turn me on just goes straight to the deed. Also I feel like I’m constantly going out my way to do things that he likes but he doesn’t care to do stuff that I do. I have brought up multiples times to him that he is coming across as a bit selfish by not caring to pleasure me in which he will a couple times after I’ve discussed it but then straight back to how it was. It’s now to the point that when he’s trying to initiate sex part of me doesn’t want to because I feel just used. I love him and I want this to change but I don’t know what else to do other then bring it up again but the more I bring it up the more awkward it feels? submitted by /u/db4568 [link] [comments]
My (F26) boyfriend (M23) and I have been dating for a just under half a year but when it comes to bedroom since the beginning it has been somewhat awkward even though the attraction is there. He previously didn’t have sex for a few years after a bad break up ( I do believe this is true as family and friends have spoke about it) im not sure if this has any impact on it or that he hasn’t had many sexual partners. But when it comes to it it seems he’s only concentrated on him getting off than pleasuring me if he finishes in sex or oral he doesn’t go out of his way to make me finish I have to ask which makes me feel awkward and like I’m forcing him to, I enjoy making him finish It’s a turn on for me but because it’s not reciprocated it’s beginning to make me not enjoy it anymore like I’m just an object. Sex also feels rushed and bumpy he doesn’t do much to turn me on just goes straight to the deed. Also I feel like I’m constantly going out my way to do things that he likes but he doesn’t care to do stuff that I do. I have brought up multiples times to him that he is coming across as a bit selfish by not caring to pleasure me in which he will a couple times after I’ve discussed it but then straight back to how it was. It’s now to the point that when he’s trying to initiate sex part of me doesn’t want to because I feel just used. I love him and I want this to change but I don’t know what else to do other then bring it up again but the more I bring it up the more awkward it feels?
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