Hey everyone, So I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (21M) for about 2 years now. We’ve been living together for about 6 months, and I genuinely love him. He’s sweet, supportive, and honestly my best friend. But… I’ve been feeling so bored when it comes to our sex life, and I don’t know what to do. When we first started dating, everything felt exciting. We’d experiment a little, and just being with him felt new and fun. But now it feels like we’re in this… routine? Like, the same positions, the same vibe, and it’s all starting to feel like just another thing on the to-do list. I don’t get that “can’t wait to rip his clothes off” feeling anymore, and I miss it. I’m starting to worry that this is just how long-term relationships are, or worse – maybe we’re not as compatible as I thought. I’ve tried dropping hints about trying new things in bed, but he doesn’t really pick up on them. I even straight-up suggested some ideas (like new positions or toys), and while he said he’s open to it, nothing ever really happens. He’s not super adventurous, which is fine, but I feel like I’m the only one trying to keep things interesting. I don’t want to pressure him, but at the same time, I don’t want to feel stuck either. Is this just normal relationship stuff? Do couples eventually just… get bored? And if not, how do l bring this up in a way that doesn’t make him feel bad? I don’t want to hurt him, but l also don’t want to keep pretending like I’m fine with how things are. Would love to hear your thoughts. Anyone else been through this?
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r/sex Hey everyone, So I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (21M) for about 2 years now. We’ve been living together for about 6 months, and I genuinely love him. He’s sweet, supportive, and honestly my best friend. But… I’ve been feeling so bored when it comes to our sex life, and I don’t know what to do. When we first started dating, everything felt exciting. We’d experiment a little, and just being with him felt new and fun. But now it feels like we’re in this… routine? Like, the same positions, the same vibe, and it’s all starting to feel like just another thing on the to-do list. I don’t get that “can’t wait to rip his clothes off” feeling anymore, and I miss it. I’m starting to worry that this is just how long-term relationships are, or worse – maybe we’re not as compatible as I thought. I’ve tried dropping hints about trying new things in bed, but he doesn’t really pick up on them. I even straight-up suggested some ideas (like new positions or toys), and while he said he’s open to it, nothing ever really happens. He’s not super adventurous, which is fine, but I feel like I’m the only one trying to keep things interesting. I don’t want to pressure him, but at the same time, I don’t want to feel stuck either. Is this just normal relationship stuff? Do couples eventually just… get bored? And if not, how do l bring this up in a way that doesn’t make him feel bad? I don’t want to hurt him, but l also don’t want to keep pretending like I’m fine with how things are. Would love to hear your thoughts. Anyone else been through this? submitted by /u/ThatChampionship4872 [link] [comments]
Hey everyone, So I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (21M) for about 2 years now. We’ve been living together for about 6 months, and I genuinely love him. He’s sweet, supportive, and honestly my best friend. But… I’ve been feeling so bored when it comes to our sex life, and I don’t know what to do. When we first started dating, everything felt exciting. We’d experiment a little, and just being with him felt new and fun. But now it feels like we’re in this… routine? Like, the same positions, the same vibe, and it’s all starting to feel like just another thing on the to-do list. I don’t get that “can’t wait to rip his clothes off” feeling anymore, and I miss it. I’m starting to worry that this is just how long-term relationships are, or worse – maybe we’re not as compatible as I thought. I’ve tried dropping hints about trying new things in bed, but he doesn’t really pick up on them. I even straight-up suggested some ideas (like new positions or toys), and while he said he’s open to it, nothing ever really happens. He’s not super adventurous, which is fine, but I feel like I’m the only one trying to keep things interesting. I don’t want to pressure him, but at the same time, I don’t want to feel stuck either. Is this just normal relationship stuff? Do couples eventually just… get bored? And if not, how do l bring this up in a way that doesn’t make him feel bad? I don’t want to hurt him, but l also don’t want to keep pretending like I’m fine with how things are. Would love to hear your thoughts. Anyone else been through this?
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