So me 29F and my partner 30M, Asian, sort of had an arranged marriage. Before getting married, we had a long distance relationship through which I got to know him. I did not know if I was physically attracted to him then, because it was all long distance. Through these phone calls, I started getting to know him, and he is the best man I could wish for. I have a very stressful job and most of the time it is him that supports me, especially with regards to household chores. He is not a mama’s boy, and he has the best personality. Even if I shout at him, he does not hurt me back, has a good sense of humour, and I know he loves me incredibly. I love him too.
The only problem now, is that our sex life is not that great. Everything is perfect as a couple apart from the sex. We hardly have sex. I try to initiate it sometimes, and he gets excited, we try to do, sometimes he finishes, sometimes he does not. I never do! Sex feels more like a chore than something exciting. I know he masturbates sometimes and I am ok with that, I sometimes do as well!! Sometimes I feel we do not have the sexual spark between us. He is my first ever sexual partner, and because of that, I have based my ideal sex life based on what I see online. When I see erotic movies and the immense physical tension between the couples that they are unable to keep off of each other, I get envious. I have never had that experience. And now I feel I am missing out on good sex.
I love him and he is perfect in every other way, We have our love moments, we cuddle a lot, I love the warmth his skin provides, but I don’t know what to make of our sex life. Is this normal between couples, or I am missing out? Someone please tell me what they show in reel is not the reality of sex.
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r/sex So me 29F and my partner 30M, Asian, sort of had an arranged marriage. Before getting married, we had a long distance relationship through which I got to know him. I did not know if I was physically attracted to him then, because it was all long distance. Through these phone calls, I started getting to know him, and he is the best man I could wish for. I have a very stressful job and most of the time it is him that supports me, especially with regards to household chores. He is not a mama’s boy, and he has the best personality. Even if I shout at him, he does not hurt me back, has a good sense of humour, and I know he loves me incredibly. I love him too. The only problem now, is that our sex life is not that great. Everything is perfect as a couple apart from the sex. We hardly have sex. I try to initiate it sometimes, and he gets excited, we try to do, sometimes he finishes, sometimes he does not. I never do! Sex feels more like a chore than something exciting. I know he masturbates sometimes and I am ok with that, I sometimes do as well!! Sometimes I feel we do not have the sexual spark between us. He is my first ever sexual partner, and because of that, I have based my ideal sex life based on what I see online. When I see erotic movies and the immense physical tension between the couples that they are unable to keep off of each other, I get envious. I have never had that experience. And now I feel I am missing out on good sex. I love him and he is perfect in every other way, We have our love moments, we cuddle a lot, I love the warmth his skin provides, but I don’t know what to make of our sex life. Is this normal between couples, or I am missing out? Someone please tell me what they show in reel is not the reality of sex. submitted by /u/getusedtoit_3345 [link] [comments]
So me 29F and my partner 30M, Asian, sort of had an arranged marriage. Before getting married, we had a long distance relationship through which I got to know him. I did not know if I was physically attracted to him then, because it was all long distance. Through these phone calls, I started getting to know him, and he is the best man I could wish for. I have a very stressful job and most of the time it is him that supports me, especially with regards to household chores. He is not a mama’s boy, and he has the best personality. Even if I shout at him, he does not hurt me back, has a good sense of humour, and I know he loves me incredibly. I love him too.
The only problem now, is that our sex life is not that great. Everything is perfect as a couple apart from the sex. We hardly have sex. I try to initiate it sometimes, and he gets excited, we try to do, sometimes he finishes, sometimes he does not. I never do! Sex feels more like a chore than something exciting. I know he masturbates sometimes and I am ok with that, I sometimes do as well!! Sometimes I feel we do not have the sexual spark between us. He is my first ever sexual partner, and because of that, I have based my ideal sex life based on what I see online. When I see erotic movies and the immense physical tension between the couples that they are unable to keep off of each other, I get envious. I have never had that experience. And now I feel I am missing out on good sex.
I love him and he is perfect in every other way, We have our love moments, we cuddle a lot, I love the warmth his skin provides, but I don’t know what to make of our sex life. Is this normal between couples, or I am missing out? Someone please tell me what they show in reel is not the reality of sex.
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