Relationships are super fluid, and I want to acknowledge that! For me, my partner is my sanctuary, and my source of sexual and romantic happiness.
Recently, we were up late night and started talking about kinks. She mentioned some like CNC and doing it outdoors. But one that stopped my heart was that she was into threesomes. For context, I am her first sexual partner, and hearing this makes me wonder if she’s curious about the “outside” world? If it’s also not clear, this is about an MFM threesome. I ended up saying that I don’t feel comfortable sharing her, but I still need to acknowledge that she has a kink that made me learn a bit about her. I don’t feel worried about enforcing my boundaries but I am hurt.
In terms of what I personally feel about the kink itself: threesomes are hot, but I can’t help that it wouldn’t feel the same mentally to penetrate where someone else has been recently. But the images of cuckoldry and being inadequate make me feel sour when I imagine it actually happening.
My question here is if anyone else has thought deeply about this, and how this can cause insecurities? I want help processing this
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r/sex Relationships are super fluid, and I want to acknowledge that! For me, my partner is my sanctuary, and my source of sexual and romantic happiness. Recently, we were up late night and started talking about kinks. She mentioned some like CNC and doing it outdoors. But one that stopped my heart was that she was into threesomes. For context, I am her first sexual partner, and hearing this makes me wonder if she’s curious about the “outside” world? If it’s also not clear, this is about an MFM threesome. I ended up saying that I don’t feel comfortable sharing her, but I still need to acknowledge that she has a kink that made me learn a bit about her. I don’t feel worried about enforcing my boundaries but I am hurt. In terms of what I personally feel about the kink itself: threesomes are hot, but I can’t help that it wouldn’t feel the same mentally to penetrate where someone else has been recently. But the images of cuckoldry and being inadequate make me feel sour when I imagine it actually happening. My question here is if anyone else has thought deeply about this, and how this can cause insecurities? I want help processing this submitted by /u/Low-Throat1315 [link] [comments]
Relationships are super fluid, and I want to acknowledge that! For me, my partner is my sanctuary, and my source of sexual and romantic happiness.
Recently, we were up late night and started talking about kinks. She mentioned some like CNC and doing it outdoors. But one that stopped my heart was that she was into threesomes. For context, I am her first sexual partner, and hearing this makes me wonder if she’s curious about the “outside” world? If it’s also not clear, this is about an MFM threesome. I ended up saying that I don’t feel comfortable sharing her, but I still need to acknowledge that she has a kink that made me learn a bit about her. I don’t feel worried about enforcing my boundaries but I am hurt.
In terms of what I personally feel about the kink itself: threesomes are hot, but I can’t help that it wouldn’t feel the same mentally to penetrate where someone else has been recently. But the images of cuckoldry and being inadequate make me feel sour when I imagine it actually happening.
My question here is if anyone else has thought deeply about this, and how this can cause insecurities? I want help processing this
submitted by /u/Low-Throat1315
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