Me (21f) and my partner (20M) have been married about 8 months now and i have really been interested in having a threesome but i don’t know if in the moment or after it i will feel crappy.
A while back when we were dating i kinda found out some gay guy was into him. Basically where were in a residential situation for a work thing and he had to share a room with a gay guy. after a few days i realized every time my partner said he was going back to his room this guy will follow as well. On the last night before leaving i was like enough is enough i think something is happening between him and the guy so i went to try to discuss it and just let the gay guy know that i was dating my partner cause apparently he didn’t know.
And me being nice, i said it in a nice way and hugged it out with said Gay guy and i don’t even know what happened but next thing i know, we were all( Gay guy, me and my partner – who says he is fully straight )in bed and i was like facing the wall and i heard kissing and when i turned around my partner was sucking the Gay guys cock! i just got out the bed and run out.
Me and my partner spoke about it and he said he was just in a different frame of mind and doesn’t actually remember much and that was the only time he had done anything with the guy
The gay guy says they had kisses multiple times and my partner was acting like his dom etc
it’s been 2 years since this happened but my partner won’t confirm if they have done more or not and it’s really causing some self confidence issues within myself
i want to have a threesome but worried i might feel ugly and crappy cause what if he is more into her but hides it and idk there is just so much to unpack… Help?
Should we have a threesome?
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r/sex Me (21f) and my partner (20M) have been married about 8 months now and i have really been interested in having a threesome but i don’t know if in the moment or after it i will feel crappy. A while back when we were dating i kinda found out some gay guy was into him. Basically where were in a residential situation for a work thing and he had to share a room with a gay guy. after a few days i realized every time my partner said he was going back to his room this guy will follow as well. On the last night before leaving i was like enough is enough i think something is happening between him and the guy so i went to try to discuss it and just let the gay guy know that i was dating my partner cause apparently he didn’t know. And me being nice, i said it in a nice way and hugged it out with said Gay guy and i don’t even know what happened but next thing i know, we were all( Gay guy, me and my partner – who says he is fully straight )in bed and i was like facing the wall and i heard kissing and when i turned around my partner was sucking the Gay guys cock! i just got out the bed and run out. Me and my partner spoke about it and he said he was just in a different frame of mind and doesn’t actually remember much and that was the only time he had done anything with the guy The gay guy says they had kisses multiple times and my partner was acting like his dom etc it’s been 2 years since this happened but my partner won’t confirm if they have done more or not and it’s really causing some self confidence issues within myself i want to have a threesome but worried i might feel ugly and crappy cause what if he is more into her but hides it and idk there is just so much to unpack… Help? Should we have a threesome? submitted by /u/Regular-Ear-5921 [link] [comments]
Me (21f) and my partner (20M) have been married about 8 months now and i have really been interested in having a threesome but i don’t know if in the moment or after it i will feel crappy.
A while back when we were dating i kinda found out some gay guy was into him. Basically where were in a residential situation for a work thing and he had to share a room with a gay guy. after a few days i realized every time my partner said he was going back to his room this guy will follow as well. On the last night before leaving i was like enough is enough i think something is happening between him and the guy so i went to try to discuss it and just let the gay guy know that i was dating my partner cause apparently he didn’t know.
And me being nice, i said it in a nice way and hugged it out with said Gay guy and i don’t even know what happened but next thing i know, we were all( Gay guy, me and my partner – who says he is fully straight )in bed and i was like facing the wall and i heard kissing and when i turned around my partner was sucking the Gay guys cock! i just got out the bed and run out.
Me and my partner spoke about it and he said he was just in a different frame of mind and doesn’t actually remember much and that was the only time he had done anything with the guy
The gay guy says they had kisses multiple times and my partner was acting like his dom etc
it’s been 2 years since this happened but my partner won’t confirm if they have done more or not and it’s really causing some self confidence issues within myself
i want to have a threesome but worried i might feel ugly and crappy cause what if he is more into her but hides it and idk there is just so much to unpack… Help?
Should we have a threesome?
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