I (23F) are having trouble with penetration from my bf (23M). We started dating about 4 months ago and started having sex about 3 months ago. We have both been with previous people, and I have never had any pain before. The pain started about 1 month ago and it seems like a tear (he also took a peek inside and saw something we think is a tear). During christmas we did not see each other for a week which was good so that my tear could heal. I also looked at some posts here on reddit about it and googled some and it seemed like the tear would heal from one week without any penetration. But now about 2 weeks later it started to hurt again and he looked inside me and it seems like it’s back. I also get very wet so i honestly do not think that’s the problem. We also started to lube his penis after the christmas break to be sure that it slides in easy. We don’t have very rough sex and we always makes sure to do a lot of foreplay. So i am just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to get rid of this and also maybe why it is happening? It is very frustrating. I have a doctors appointment in about 2 weeks and will bring it up with my doctor if things aren’t getting better.
And sorry if i forgot to say something or if the post is messy, it’s my first time posting and english is not my first language.
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r/sex I (23F) are having trouble with penetration from my bf (23M). We started dating about 4 months ago and started having sex about 3 months ago. We have both been with previous people, and I have never had any pain before. The pain started about 1 month ago and it seems like a tear (he also took a peek inside and saw something we think is a tear). During christmas we did not see each other for a week which was good so that my tear could heal. I also looked at some posts here on reddit about it and googled some and it seemed like the tear would heal from one week without any penetration. But now about 2 weeks later it started to hurt again and he looked inside me and it seems like it’s back. I also get very wet so i honestly do not think that’s the problem. We also started to lube his penis after the christmas break to be sure that it slides in easy. We don’t have very rough sex and we always makes sure to do a lot of foreplay. So i am just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to get rid of this and also maybe why it is happening? It is very frustrating. I have a doctors appointment in about 2 weeks and will bring it up with my doctor if things aren’t getting better. And sorry if i forgot to say something or if the post is messy, it’s my first time posting and english is not my first language. submitted by /u/Candid_Wind7993 [link] [comments]
I (23F) are having trouble with penetration from my bf (23M). We started dating about 4 months ago and started having sex about 3 months ago. We have both been with previous people, and I have never had any pain before. The pain started about 1 month ago and it seems like a tear (he also took a peek inside and saw something we think is a tear). During christmas we did not see each other for a week which was good so that my tear could heal. I also looked at some posts here on reddit about it and googled some and it seemed like the tear would heal from one week without any penetration. But now about 2 weeks later it started to hurt again and he looked inside me and it seems like it’s back. I also get very wet so i honestly do not think that’s the problem. We also started to lube his penis after the christmas break to be sure that it slides in easy. We don’t have very rough sex and we always makes sure to do a lot of foreplay. So i am just wondering if anyone has any advice on how to get rid of this and also maybe why it is happening? It is very frustrating. I have a doctors appointment in about 2 weeks and will bring it up with my doctor if things aren’t getting better.
And sorry if i forgot to say something or if the post is messy, it’s my first time posting and english is not my first language.
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