I (27F) like trying new things with my partner and I love the idea of versatility in sex, but my mind and body are really out of sync. I don’t get physical enjoyment from anything done with fingers, receiving oral, getting my nipples touched (they’re overly sensitive so touch is painful), anal or any BDSM stuff either. In the moment I’m turned on and like the idea, but, my body just doesn’t respond to these things.
I like penetration and kissing though and can have an orgasm by using a vibrator (although it’s only possible in two specific positions during sex), so at least there’s something ppositive. I’m in a relationship and our sex life is really good, I’m just sometimes really bored and frustrated with my body. My mind wants more versatility than my body can offer.
Can anyone relate?
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r/sex I (27F) like trying new things with my partner and I love the idea of versatility in sex, but my mind and body are really out of sync. I don’t get physical enjoyment from anything done with fingers, receiving oral, getting my nipples touched (they’re overly sensitive so touch is painful), anal or any BDSM stuff either. In the moment I’m turned on and like the idea, but, my body just doesn’t respond to these things. I like penetration and kissing though and can have an orgasm by using a vibrator (although it’s only possible in two specific positions during sex), so at least there’s something ppositive. I’m in a relationship and our sex life is really good, I’m just sometimes really bored and frustrated with my body. My mind wants more versatility than my body can offer. Can anyone relate? submitted by /u/mountainllama7788 [link] [comments]
I (27F) like trying new things with my partner and I love the idea of versatility in sex, but my mind and body are really out of sync. I don’t get physical enjoyment from anything done with fingers, receiving oral, getting my nipples touched (they’re overly sensitive so touch is painful), anal or any BDSM stuff either. In the moment I’m turned on and like the idea, but, my body just doesn’t respond to these things.
I like penetration and kissing though and can have an orgasm by using a vibrator (although it’s only possible in two specific positions during sex), so at least there’s something ppositive. I’m in a relationship and our sex life is really good, I’m just sometimes really bored and frustrated with my body. My mind wants more versatility than my body can offer.
Can anyone relate?
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