A lot of the times I have sex, I end up feeling used / like I got taken advantage of even if it’s what I want. I think it’s my way of placing the blame onto someone, so the guilt on my end can go away (but it never works)
I do think hooking up casually is okay for me, i dont have much experience and I’m kind of just exploring. And everytime I date with the purpose of a relationship, it turns out bad for me. And I feel hurt. It’s also a lot of emotional effort, and I feel now I just need to solidify myself better and figure out what I want. I have a really big heart and know I’d be a loyal, attentive gf. But I’m 25 and I have never been in a relationship (cause I haven’t been trying)
Growing up guys at parties would get me drunk and hookup with me. But no one ever wanted to date me cause I was a lil socially awkward. Also my family was not one to talk about sex, and my dad would warn me about “how men are”.
Any advice for how to get rid of this shame?
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r/sex A lot of the times I have sex, I end up feeling used / like I got taken advantage of even if it’s what I want. I think it’s my way of placing the blame onto someone, so the guilt on my end can go away (but it never works) I do think hooking up casually is okay for me, i dont have much experience and I’m kind of just exploring. And everytime I date with the purpose of a relationship, it turns out bad for me. And I feel hurt. It’s also a lot of emotional effort, and I feel now I just need to solidify myself better and figure out what I want. I have a really big heart and know I’d be a loyal, attentive gf. But I’m 25 and I have never been in a relationship (cause I haven’t been trying) Growing up guys at parties would get me drunk and hookup with me. But no one ever wanted to date me cause I was a lil socially awkward. Also my family was not one to talk about sex, and my dad would warn me about “how men are”. Any advice for how to get rid of this shame? submitted by /u/DifferentWatch4451 [link] [comments]
A lot of the times I have sex, I end up feeling used / like I got taken advantage of even if it’s what I want. I think it’s my way of placing the blame onto someone, so the guilt on my end can go away (but it never works)
I do think hooking up casually is okay for me, i dont have much experience and I’m kind of just exploring. And everytime I date with the purpose of a relationship, it turns out bad for me. And I feel hurt. It’s also a lot of emotional effort, and I feel now I just need to solidify myself better and figure out what I want. I have a really big heart and know I’d be a loyal, attentive gf. But I’m 25 and I have never been in a relationship (cause I haven’t been trying)
Growing up guys at parties would get me drunk and hookup with me. But no one ever wanted to date me cause I was a lil socially awkward. Also my family was not one to talk about sex, and my dad would warn me about “how men are”.
Any advice for how to get rid of this shame?
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