Hey, so I’m 20F and a virgin, but I really want to have sex. I’ve been talking to this guy who’s super experienced, but I’m not 100% comfortable with my body yet. I’m on the chubbier side, and while I’m cool being naked when I’m by myself, being naked in front of someone else? Yeah… that’s a whole different story. Like, I only just got comfortable changing my shirt or pants in front of my roommate, and we’ve been living together for a year (we only really started hanging out 6 months ago). I really want this to happen with this guy, but I’m scared I’ll get all tense and nervous and end up disappointing myself—or him. It’s weird because I feel like I’m super open about sex, even though I’ve never actually done it. Some days, I feel amazing and think, “Yeah, I deserve love and pleasure just like anyone else.” But then other days, my brain hits me with, “Lol, no, you don’t—you’re not skinny.” And it just messes with me.
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r/sex Hey, so I’m 20F and a virgin, but I really want to have sex. I’ve been talking to this guy who’s super experienced, but I’m not 100% comfortable with my body yet. I’m on the chubbier side, and while I’m cool being naked when I’m by myself, being naked in front of someone else? Yeah… that’s a whole different story. Like, I only just got comfortable changing my shirt or pants in front of my roommate, and we’ve been living together for a year (we only really started hanging out 6 months ago). I really want this to happen with this guy, but I’m scared I’ll get all tense and nervous and end up disappointing myself—or him. It’s weird because I feel like I’m super open about sex, even though I’ve never actually done it. Some days, I feel amazing and think, “Yeah, I deserve love and pleasure just like anyone else.” But then other days, my brain hits me with, “Lol, no, you don’t—you’re not skinny.” And it just messes with me. submitted by /u/sirena_sospetta [link] [comments]
Hey, so I’m 20F and a virgin, but I really want to have sex. I’ve been talking to this guy who’s super experienced, but I’m not 100% comfortable with my body yet. I’m on the chubbier side, and while I’m cool being naked when I’m by myself, being naked in front of someone else? Yeah… that’s a whole different story. Like, I only just got comfortable changing my shirt or pants in front of my roommate, and we’ve been living together for a year (we only really started hanging out 6 months ago). I really want this to happen with this guy, but I’m scared I’ll get all tense and nervous and end up disappointing myself—or him. It’s weird because I feel like I’m super open about sex, even though I’ve never actually done it. Some days, I feel amazing and think, “Yeah, I deserve love and pleasure just like anyone else.” But then other days, my brain hits me with, “Lol, no, you don’t—you’re not skinny.” And it just messes with me.
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