hey english isn’t my first language, but here we go.
Me (17f) and my bf (18m) have been dating for a little over a month. We haven’t had real sex yet, but we have been doing oral and touching each other for a while, even before we started dating. I am also not on birth control. Last night i stayed the night at his house and we tried to have sex. His dick went soft after he tried to put on a condom, so he asked me if we could try without. I felt really uncomfortable with that and didn’t even consider it, and told him straight no, and that i didn’t want to get pregnant. I tought he understood that because he apologised and we went to sleep. when it was morning and i was half asleep i could feel him playing with his dick, and he proceeded to stick it in between my legs(not inside me) I was okay with that until he actually put it inside me. i froze and took it out cause i was chocked that he would do such thing after i had already told him i didn’t feel comfortable with that and proceeded to tell him that i didn’t want to get pregnant. He then apologised again and then he just gave me head instead. I have so many mixed feelings about this because i was still half asleep. we are also both virgins so i didn’t expect that he wanted our first time to be like that. I don’t know if i’m overreacting but he definitely crossed some boundaries and idk why but i’m crying writing this post.
I love him very much and i know he loves me, But does he really care about me if he doesent respect my boundaries? I also understand that he was probably aroused by his boner, and thought it was hot in the heat of the moment, and probably didn’t actually mean to hurt me, but i lowkey feel betrayed a little bit. I really don’t want to break up with him.
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r/sex hey english isn’t my first language, but here we go. Me (17f) and my bf (18m) have been dating for a little over a month. We haven’t had real sex yet, but we have been doing oral and touching each other for a while, even before we started dating. I am also not on birth control. Last night i stayed the night at his house and we tried to have sex. His dick went soft after he tried to put on a condom, so he asked me if we could try without. I felt really uncomfortable with that and didn’t even consider it, and told him straight no, and that i didn’t want to get pregnant. I tought he understood that because he apologised and we went to sleep. when it was morning and i was half asleep i could feel him playing with his dick, and he proceeded to stick it in between my legs(not inside me) I was okay with that until he actually put it inside me. i froze and took it out cause i was chocked that he would do such thing after i had already told him i didn’t feel comfortable with that and proceeded to tell him that i didn’t want to get pregnant. He then apologised again and then he just gave me head instead. I have so many mixed feelings about this because i was still half asleep. we are also both virgins so i didn’t expect that he wanted our first time to be like that. I don’t know if i’m overreacting but he definitely crossed some boundaries and idk why but i’m crying writing this post. I love him very much and i know he loves me, But does he really care about me if he doesent respect my boundaries? I also understand that he was probably aroused by his boner, and thought it was hot in the heat of the moment, and probably didn’t actually mean to hurt me, but i lowkey feel betrayed a little bit. I really don’t want to break up with him. submitted by /u/EchidnaValuable238 [link] [comments]
hey english isn’t my first language, but here we go.
Me (17f) and my bf (18m) have been dating for a little over a month. We haven’t had real sex yet, but we have been doing oral and touching each other for a while, even before we started dating. I am also not on birth control. Last night i stayed the night at his house and we tried to have sex. His dick went soft after he tried to put on a condom, so he asked me if we could try without. I felt really uncomfortable with that and didn’t even consider it, and told him straight no, and that i didn’t want to get pregnant. I tought he understood that because he apologised and we went to sleep. when it was morning and i was half asleep i could feel him playing with his dick, and he proceeded to stick it in between my legs(not inside me) I was okay with that until he actually put it inside me. i froze and took it out cause i was chocked that he would do such thing after i had already told him i didn’t feel comfortable with that and proceeded to tell him that i didn’t want to get pregnant. He then apologised again and then he just gave me head instead. I have so many mixed feelings about this because i was still half asleep. we are also both virgins so i didn’t expect that he wanted our first time to be like that. I don’t know if i’m overreacting but he definitely crossed some boundaries and idk why but i’m crying writing this post.
I love him very much and i know he loves me, But does he really care about me if he doesent respect my boundaries? I also understand that he was probably aroused by his boner, and thought it was hot in the heat of the moment, and probably didn’t actually mean to hurt me, but i lowkey feel betrayed a little bit. I really don’t want to break up with him.
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