32M terribly inexperienced in bed. Would practicing with Sex Workers be a good idea? /u/PotentialSpare6412 Sex

I’ve had terrible luck in terms of romance in my life, never been in a relationship, dated a handful of women but never got beyond the 2nd date. Have made out/tongue kissed a dozen or so women I’ve met in nightclubs over the years.

I’ve had sex twice once when I was 22 with a sex worker (I was really nervous could barely get hard and barely penetrated her.

And again when I was 27 I had a ONS with a woman I met in a hotel bar while travelling in Canada. I couldn’t get hard at all and just had to do oral instead. She ghosted me after.

Obviously there is a massive skills gap between me and most other men my age who will have had sex 100s or 1000s of times previously.

At my age the dating pool is shrinking and I’m running out of time. Women are going to be very turned off to discover that someone my age is so terribly inexperienced. I don’t want to ruin the very limited chances I have.

I know I will get lots of responses like “FiNd A pArTnER wHo UnDeRStAnDs” “bE hOnEsT aNd CoMmUnIcATE” but it’s not like I have a wide array of women to choose from when most bars in my hometown are empty and I get 1 match a month on dating apps.

I’ve read lots of articles, instructional videos etc but it seems like sex is like playing an instrument – you can only get good by physically practicing it.

If i were to use the services of sex workers a few times in order to get better at sex and generally feel more comfortable what would be some things to keep in mind?

What else could I do in the meantime to get better at sex?

I’ve had terrible luck in terms of romance in my life, never been in a relationship, dated a handful of women but never got beyond the 2nd date. Have made out/tongue kissed a dozen or so women I’ve met in nightclubs over the years.

I’ve had sex twice once when I was 22 with a sex worker (I was really nervous could barely get hard and barely penetrated her.

And again when I was 27 I had a ONS with a woman I met in a hotel bar while travelling in Canada. I couldn’t get hard at all and just had to do oral instead. She ghosted me after.

Obviously there is a massive skills gap between me and most other men my age who will have had sex 100s or 1000s of times previously.

At my age the dating pool is shrinking and I’m running out of time. Women are going to be very turned off to discover that someone my age is so terribly inexperienced. I don’t want to ruin the very limited chances I have.

I know I will get lots of responses like “FiNd A pArTnER wHo UnDeRStAnDs” “bE hOnEsT aNd CoMmUnIcATE” but it’s not like I have a wide array of women to choose from when most bars in my hometown are empty and I get 1 match a month on dating apps.

I’ve read lots of articles, instructional videos etc but it seems like sex is like playing an instrument – you can only get good by physically practicing it.

If i were to use the services of sex workers a few times in order to get better at sex and generally feel more comfortable what would be some things to keep in mind?

What else could I do in the meantime to get better at sex?