We’ve been together for over 8 years. I was her first everything. Here’s how our sex goes 99% of the time since she got an IUD a few years ago:
1) I kiss her all over, down her neck, chest, and stomach for several minutes, then eat her out until she cums.
2) She sucks my dick for 2 minutes or so until her jaw gets tired (I’m a little on the bigger side but nothing crazy).
3) We fuck hard and fast until we both cum at/near the same time.
Now this sex is fantastic and I love it BUT…. It’s all we do. I think she’s made me cum from a bj once in the last 5 years. I’ve tried many many times to switch things up, but she basically refuses to touch me at all until step 1 from above is finished.
Sometimes she’ll wear lingerie for me, and as soon as it’s on she lies down in bed waiting for step 1.
How do I talk about this with her without being a dick? I don’t want to imply that she’s not enough for me, and the sex itself is great and she’s an active participant. I just want her to take the initiative sometimes and focus on me first. I want to feel wanted, right now it’s like she’s only doing it bc she gets orgasms out of it.
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r/sex We’ve been together for over 8 years. I was her first everything. Here’s how our sex goes 99% of the time since she got an IUD a few years ago: 1) I kiss her all over, down her neck, chest, and stomach for several minutes, then eat her out until she cums. 2) She sucks my dick for 2 minutes or so until her jaw gets tired (I’m a little on the bigger side but nothing crazy). 3) We fuck hard and fast until we both cum at/near the same time. Now this sex is fantastic and I love it BUT…. It’s all we do. I think she’s made me cum from a bj once in the last 5 years. I’ve tried many many times to switch things up, but she basically refuses to touch me at all until step 1 from above is finished. Sometimes she’ll wear lingerie for me, and as soon as it’s on she lies down in bed waiting for step 1. How do I talk about this with her without being a dick? I don’t want to imply that she’s not enough for me, and the sex itself is great and she’s an active participant. I just want her to take the initiative sometimes and focus on me first. I want to feel wanted, right now it’s like she’s only doing it bc she gets orgasms out of it. submitted by /u/EpicNSFW [link] [comments]
We’ve been together for over 8 years. I was her first everything. Here’s how our sex goes 99% of the time since she got an IUD a few years ago:
1) I kiss her all over, down her neck, chest, and stomach for several minutes, then eat her out until she cums.
2) She sucks my dick for 2 minutes or so until her jaw gets tired (I’m a little on the bigger side but nothing crazy).
3) We fuck hard and fast until we both cum at/near the same time.
Now this sex is fantastic and I love it BUT…. It’s all we do. I think she’s made me cum from a bj once in the last 5 years. I’ve tried many many times to switch things up, but she basically refuses to touch me at all until step 1 from above is finished.
Sometimes she’ll wear lingerie for me, and as soon as it’s on she lies down in bed waiting for step 1.
How do I talk about this with her without being a dick? I don’t want to imply that she’s not enough for me, and the sex itself is great and she’s an active participant. I just want her to take the initiative sometimes and focus on me first. I want to feel wanted, right now it’s like she’s only doing it bc she gets orgasms out of it.
submitted by /u/EpicNSFW
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