Why do people love to say they were with your partner before you? /u/maximuffi No such thing as stupid questions

My guy finally got the hint that we can define our relationship. Why is it that when you’re finally in a relationship, individuals from your partners past have to message you letting me know they had a brief thing a while ago? No less than 3 girls have messaged me. Everyone saying just to let you know your boyfriend and I had a brief thing, so no need to get jealous. The thing is, I’ve known, I was his friend when they had whatever they had. He hasn’t spoken to them since. This is over a year ago.

Apparently I’m not unique to this situation as my friends have said it always happens to them. It’s like them saying they reached a destination before you. Why are people like that? Is it a pride thing, a power move on there part or are people trying to cause issues?

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​r/NoStupidQuestions My guy finally got the hint that we can define our relationship. Why is it that when you’re finally in a relationship, individuals from your partners past have to message you letting me know they had a brief thing a while ago? No less than 3 girls have messaged me. Everyone saying just to let you know your boyfriend and I had a brief thing, so no need to get jealous. The thing is, I’ve known, I was his friend when they had whatever they had. He hasn’t spoken to them since. This is over a year ago. Apparently I’m not unique to this situation as my friends have said it always happens to them. It’s like them saying they reached a destination before you. Why are people like that? Is it a pride thing, a power move on there part or are people trying to cause issues? submitted by /u/maximuffi [link] [comments] 

My guy finally got the hint that we can define our relationship. Why is it that when you’re finally in a relationship, individuals from your partners past have to message you letting me know they had a brief thing a while ago? No less than 3 girls have messaged me. Everyone saying just to let you know your boyfriend and I had a brief thing, so no need to get jealous. The thing is, I’ve known, I was his friend when they had whatever they had. He hasn’t spoken to them since. This is over a year ago.

Apparently I’m not unique to this situation as my friends have said it always happens to them. It’s like them saying they reached a destination before you. Why are people like that? Is it a pride thing, a power move on there part or are people trying to cause issues?

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