I want to have rougher, kinkier sex and have communicated this to my partner. He’s on board but wants direction. I think Valentine’s Day will be a great way to dive in and create a really memorable night. I would love any ideas if you’ve done something similar to get out of the rut in a LTR by booking a stay at a nice hotel. We have very vanilla sex that’s more like “making love” but it’s not fulfilling to me.
The idea so far is to take him out to an omakase dinner for Valentine’s Day, having him think that was the main event. Then towards the end of dinner, I’ll hand him the hotel keycard with the address written on it and tell him to have another drink then come meet me in 30 minutes. I’ll present to him with 5 lingerie options for me to try on, sex games/dice/cards, and bondage toys and let him choose what we do. I’m stumped on how to present it to him like just dump it all on the bed in a way that’s not intimidating. Thanks!
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r/sex I want to have rougher, kinkier sex and have communicated this to my partner. He’s on board but wants direction. I think Valentine’s Day will be a great way to dive in and create a really memorable night. I would love any ideas if you’ve done something similar to get out of the rut in a LTR by booking a stay at a nice hotel. We have very vanilla sex that’s more like “making love” but it’s not fulfilling to me. The idea so far is to take him out to an omakase dinner for Valentine’s Day, having him think that was the main event. Then towards the end of dinner, I’ll hand him the hotel keycard with the address written on it and tell him to have another drink then come meet me in 30 minutes. I’ll present to him with 5 lingerie options for me to try on, sex games/dice/cards, and bondage toys and let him choose what we do. I’m stumped on how to present it to him like just dump it all on the bed in a way that’s not intimidating. Thanks! submitted by /u/ZucchiniBoring778 [link] [comments]
I want to have rougher, kinkier sex and have communicated this to my partner. He’s on board but wants direction. I think Valentine’s Day will be a great way to dive in and create a really memorable night. I would love any ideas if you’ve done something similar to get out of the rut in a LTR by booking a stay at a nice hotel. We have very vanilla sex that’s more like “making love” but it’s not fulfilling to me.
The idea so far is to take him out to an omakase dinner for Valentine’s Day, having him think that was the main event. Then towards the end of dinner, I’ll hand him the hotel keycard with the address written on it and tell him to have another drink then come meet me in 30 minutes. I’ll present to him with 5 lingerie options for me to try on, sex games/dice/cards, and bondage toys and let him choose what we do. I’m stumped on how to present it to him like just dump it all on the bed in a way that’s not intimidating. Thanks!
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