Regaining sexual confidence /u/cornerthree12 Sex

My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly eight years but have been sexually inactive for the last six years.

It all started when I was having erection issues where I either couldn’t get hard or couldn’t stay hard.

It frustrated us both and after it happening multiple times we eventually stopped trying.

I had anxiety about having sex. I didn’t want to do it because I was terrified about not getting hard.

I can get hard and reach orgasm during my me time.

Since then we haven’t even tried to have sex with each other and I miss it. But I have no idea how to start doing it again it’s been so long. I’m still worried about it but I know we need to have sex for the good of our relationship.

Any thoughts?

My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly eight years but have been sexually inactive for the last six years.

It all started when I was having erection issues where I either couldn’t get hard or couldn’t stay hard.

It frustrated us both and after it happening multiple times we eventually stopped trying.

I had anxiety about having sex. I didn’t want to do it because I was terrified about not getting hard.

I can get hard and reach orgasm during my me time.

Since then we haven’t even tried to have sex with each other and I miss it. But I have no idea how to start doing it again it’s been so long. I’m still worried about it but I know we need to have sex for the good of our relationship.

Any thoughts?