weve been married for 6 months and i feel like we only have sex once a week. i have an extremely high libido and in all my relationships and with him when we were first dating we had sex almost every day at least. there came a point where he and i had sex less after i moved back home to my parents (this was a few months before our engagement) and he said he just didn’t want to be sneaking around in my parents home. i felt mutual about this so i was okay with going days not have sex. however after getting married and moving in together, i thought this would change but he just doesn’t seem that crazy about me sexually. i know my husband loves me and he shows up for me in literally every other way, but even if i dress up in lingerie and put on some hot music and light candles he still doesn’t get that excited. i have a hard time believing it could be my looks because we literally model together as a couple and i get male attention anytime i go out with my friends. on a lot of my reels people have said i look like katy perry and im in the healthy/fit bmi range 😭 when i communicate this to him he just says he’s tired. in his defense, i get most horny at night before bed time and i guess he doesn’t have any energy by then but he hardly initiates things with me during the day or when he gets home from work so im confused. and even when we do have sex he doesn’t say anything about how sexy i am or seem to be that aroused by how i move. i’m a dancer and can move my hips really good lol and all my exes were always telling me how good i was… he just doesn’t say anything. he doesn’t say anything about my body or about how i move or anyhing. it’s caused me to feel more insecure and lose my confidence. how can i make things sexier again?
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r/sex weve been married for 6 months and i feel like we only have sex once a week. i have an extremely high libido and in all my relationships and with him when we were first dating we had sex almost every day at least. there came a point where he and i had sex less after i moved back home to my parents (this was a few months before our engagement) and he said he just didn’t want to be sneaking around in my parents home. i felt mutual about this so i was okay with going days not have sex. however after getting married and moving in together, i thought this would change but he just doesn’t seem that crazy about me sexually. i know my husband loves me and he shows up for me in literally every other way, but even if i dress up in lingerie and put on some hot music and light candles he still doesn’t get that excited. i have a hard time believing it could be my looks because we literally model together as a couple and i get male attention anytime i go out with my friends. on a lot of my reels people have said i look like katy perry and im in the healthy/fit bmi range 😭 when i communicate this to him he just says he’s tired. in his defense, i get most horny at night before bed time and i guess he doesn’t have any energy by then but he hardly initiates things with me during the day or when he gets home from work so im confused. and even when we do have sex he doesn’t say anything about how sexy i am or seem to be that aroused by how i move. i’m a dancer and can move my hips really good lol and all my exes were always telling me how good i was… he just doesn’t say anything. he doesn’t say anything about my body or about how i move or anyhing. it’s caused me to feel more insecure and lose my confidence. how can i make things sexier again? submitted by /u/CertainDepartment752 [link] [comments]
weve been married for 6 months and i feel like we only have sex once a week. i have an extremely high libido and in all my relationships and with him when we were first dating we had sex almost every day at least. there came a point where he and i had sex less after i moved back home to my parents (this was a few months before our engagement) and he said he just didn’t want to be sneaking around in my parents home. i felt mutual about this so i was okay with going days not have sex. however after getting married and moving in together, i thought this would change but he just doesn’t seem that crazy about me sexually. i know my husband loves me and he shows up for me in literally every other way, but even if i dress up in lingerie and put on some hot music and light candles he still doesn’t get that excited. i have a hard time believing it could be my looks because we literally model together as a couple and i get male attention anytime i go out with my friends. on a lot of my reels people have said i look like katy perry and im in the healthy/fit bmi range 😭 when i communicate this to him he just says he’s tired. in his defense, i get most horny at night before bed time and i guess he doesn’t have any energy by then but he hardly initiates things with me during the day or when he gets home from work so im confused. and even when we do have sex he doesn’t say anything about how sexy i am or seem to be that aroused by how i move. i’m a dancer and can move my hips really good lol and all my exes were always telling me how good i was… he just doesn’t say anything. he doesn’t say anything about my body or about how i move or anyhing. it’s caused me to feel more insecure and lose my confidence. how can i make things sexier again?
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