I don’t like oral sex. At all. Should I let my partners know right off the bat? /u/Marylin_hemorrhoid Sex

I’m a heterosexual woman. I do not like oral sex. I don’t like receiving oral sex, and I don’t like giving oral sex. No, it’s not because I haven’t found the right person. I have tried, multiple times, and I just don’t like it. I won’t get into details. I just hate oral sex.

In your opinion, should I let my sex partners know right off the bat? Wouldn’t that kill the magic? Or should I wait until they try to give/receive oral sex and decline? I’m asking because some men, the best lovers I’ve had, didn’t ask to receive oral sex and didn’t want to perform oral sex, and things flowed naturally and it was the best sex ever. However, when guys want to get oral sex or perform oral sex, it turns me off, but then I feel they have the right to know in advance that we might be sexually incompatible.

I’m a heterosexual woman. I do not like oral sex. I don’t like receiving oral sex, and I don’t like giving oral sex. No, it’s not because I haven’t found the right person. I have tried, multiple times, and I just don’t like it. I won’t get into details. I just hate oral sex.

In your opinion, should I let my sex partners know right off the bat? Wouldn’t that kill the magic? Or should I wait until they try to give/receive oral sex and decline? I’m asking because some men, the best lovers I’ve had, didn’t ask to receive oral sex and didn’t want to perform oral sex, and things flowed naturally and it was the best sex ever. However, when guys want to get oral sex or perform oral sex, it turns me off, but then I feel they have the right to know in advance that we might be sexually incompatible.