I (f19) have been with my bf (m19) for almost 2 years. He was my first everything, he makes me finish before we have sex, etc. But for some reason I just don’t feel wanted by him when we’re going to have sex. We barely do any foreplay despite the many times I’ve asked him to do more and lately sex just feels like a routine. He doesn’t do dirty talk (which I’ve asked him to do a few times as well) and I never get wet for him (I get wet when I’m pleasuring myself, but only then). We have good sex, and I even sometimes finish from penetration, but I don’t feel adored or sexy or anything like that. Sex doesn’t feel special to me anymore, and I don’t feel special to him. I know he loves me and he spoils me and whatever but I just don’t feel appreciated when we have sex. He even tells me sometimes how much he loves my body but I’m starting to not believe him anymore. I kind of just feel used. Is this a me problem or do I need to talk to him about it? Every time I try talking to him about stuff like this he just doesn’t really understand and I don’t know what I want him to do specifically, I just miss feeling loved when we have sex.
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r/sex I (f19) have been with my bf (m19) for almost 2 years. He was my first everything, he makes me finish before we have sex, etc. But for some reason I just don’t feel wanted by him when we’re going to have sex. We barely do any foreplay despite the many times I’ve asked him to do more and lately sex just feels like a routine. He doesn’t do dirty talk (which I’ve asked him to do a few times as well) and I never get wet for him (I get wet when I’m pleasuring myself, but only then). We have good sex, and I even sometimes finish from penetration, but I don’t feel adored or sexy or anything like that. Sex doesn’t feel special to me anymore, and I don’t feel special to him. I know he loves me and he spoils me and whatever but I just don’t feel appreciated when we have sex. He even tells me sometimes how much he loves my body but I’m starting to not believe him anymore. I kind of just feel used. Is this a me problem or do I need to talk to him about it? Every time I try talking to him about stuff like this he just doesn’t really understand and I don’t know what I want him to do specifically, I just miss feeling loved when we have sex. submitted by /u/Relative-Cellist-666 [link] [comments]
I (f19) have been with my bf (m19) for almost 2 years. He was my first everything, he makes me finish before we have sex, etc. But for some reason I just don’t feel wanted by him when we’re going to have sex. We barely do any foreplay despite the many times I’ve asked him to do more and lately sex just feels like a routine. He doesn’t do dirty talk (which I’ve asked him to do a few times as well) and I never get wet for him (I get wet when I’m pleasuring myself, but only then). We have good sex, and I even sometimes finish from penetration, but I don’t feel adored or sexy or anything like that. Sex doesn’t feel special to me anymore, and I don’t feel special to him. I know he loves me and he spoils me and whatever but I just don’t feel appreciated when we have sex. He even tells me sometimes how much he loves my body but I’m starting to not believe him anymore. I kind of just feel used. Is this a me problem or do I need to talk to him about it? Every time I try talking to him about stuff like this he just doesn’t really understand and I don’t know what I want him to do specifically, I just miss feeling loved when we have sex.
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