41 f I have had a few partners try to get me off through oral sex with no results feels good but no big finish. very first time I was 22 and he was hitting a spot making my leg shake like a dog and he commented on it and obviously embarrassed I stopped my leg shacking. I never achieved any type of orgasm with him to the point he called me frigid. That realtionship lasted a year. Fast forward to my early to mid 30’s had 2 friend with benefits realtionships neither one could get me off orally felt good but nothin orgasming at all was hit or miss. Then I meet my husband we dated 3 years he unlocked my dirty slightly kinked side. He does have ED so we work around it with toys. One night he had me right at the edge (damn near screaming for him to make me cum) one of the times he ate me out. I guess i was basically sitting on his face. He later told me that he had to stop because without realizing I was resting my full weight on him. I am heavier now than I was then and I haven’t asked for oral because I don’t want to get lost in the moment and then possible hurt him. I think what it was about me on top is when everything hangs open I’m somehow more sensitive and it’s more pleasurable are there other positions where I’m not putting 250+lbs on him while having oral sex?
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r/sex 41 f I have had a few partners try to get me off through oral sex with no results feels good but no big finish. very first time I was 22 and he was hitting a spot making my leg shake like a dog and he commented on it and obviously embarrassed I stopped my leg shacking. I never achieved any type of orgasm with him to the point he called me frigid. That realtionship lasted a year. Fast forward to my early to mid 30’s had 2 friend with benefits realtionships neither one could get me off orally felt good but nothin orgasming at all was hit or miss. Then I meet my husband we dated 3 years he unlocked my dirty slightly kinked side. He does have ED so we work around it with toys. One night he had me right at the edge (damn near screaming for him to make me cum) one of the times he ate me out. I guess i was basically sitting on his face. He later told me that he had to stop because without realizing I was resting my full weight on him. I am heavier now than I was then and I haven’t asked for oral because I don’t want to get lost in the moment and then possible hurt him. I think what it was about me on top is when everything hangs open I’m somehow more sensitive and it’s more pleasurable are there other positions where I’m not putting 250+lbs on him while having oral sex? submitted by /u/Upstairs_Jaguar_7825 [link] [comments]
41 f I have had a few partners try to get me off through oral sex with no results feels good but no big finish. very first time I was 22 and he was hitting a spot making my leg shake like a dog and he commented on it and obviously embarrassed I stopped my leg shacking. I never achieved any type of orgasm with him to the point he called me frigid. That realtionship lasted a year. Fast forward to my early to mid 30’s had 2 friend with benefits realtionships neither one could get me off orally felt good but nothin orgasming at all was hit or miss. Then I meet my husband we dated 3 years he unlocked my dirty slightly kinked side. He does have ED so we work around it with toys. One night he had me right at the edge (damn near screaming for him to make me cum) one of the times he ate me out. I guess i was basically sitting on his face. He later told me that he had to stop because without realizing I was resting my full weight on him. I am heavier now than I was then and I haven’t asked for oral because I don’t want to get lost in the moment and then possible hurt him. I think what it was about me on top is when everything hangs open I’m somehow more sensitive and it’s more pleasurable are there other positions where I’m not putting 250+lbs on him while having oral sex?
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