Boyfriend can’t (won’t?) finish /u/JAMsesh90 Sex

My (34F) partner (39M) of 5 months never finishes when we have sex. There’s been one exception where I stayed the night and he stroked himself to completion the morning after, but otherwise he has never cum when I’m there.

I’ve tried telling him that I would find it really hot if he did and asked if there was anything I could do differently, but he says he’s fine. I know he has body image issues which I try to reassure him about, too. He enjoys just focusing on my pleasure (great!) but it makes me feel selfish and confused.

Any ideas on how to phrase what I’m asking differently? I’d love some insight if anyone else has experienced this.

My (34F) partner (39M) of 5 months never finishes when we have sex. There’s been one exception where I stayed the night and he stroked himself to completion the morning after, but otherwise he has never cum when I’m there.

I’ve tried telling him that I would find it really hot if he did and asked if there was anything I could do differently, but he says he’s fine. I know he has body image issues which I try to reassure him about, too. He enjoys just focusing on my pleasure (great!) but it makes me feel selfish and confused.

Any ideas on how to phrase what I’m asking differently? I’d love some insight if anyone else has experienced this.