Are you expected to just have an orgasm in you pants during a lap dance in a strip club? /u/turnmeintocompostplz No such thing as stupid questions

I’m not entirely sure what the idea is otherwise. I get the idea of being turned on but not actively orgasming is plenty fun, but it seems like a lot of effort and money spent to have that experience. Is there the idea that it is likely to happen (or is the entire point), or are you just in it for the grind?

Edit: Just to be clear, this is not a referendum on strip clubs or their clientele. People are into things, I just wanted to know what the norms were.

I’m not entirely sure what the idea is otherwise. I get the idea of being turned on but not actively orgasming is plenty fun, but it seems like a lot of effort and money spent to have that experience. Is there the idea that it is likely to happen (or is the entire point), or are you just in it for the grind?

Edit: Just to be clear, this is not a referendum on strip clubs or their clientele. People are into things, I just wanted to know what the norms were.