Wife’s increased appetite /u/Slaeba Sex

My wife (53f, Melissa) and I (55m) have been married for 24 years, happily so. Our sex life has been satisfying overall – nothing too crazy, generally about once a week on average for the past 10 years I’d say. Used to be more when we were younger, before kids, etc. Melissa still looks fantastic and I’m very attracted to her.

Lately though she’s had some noticeable increases in her libido, likely due to hormones relating to perimenopause. It’s taken me by surprise (not complaining!) and I’d be curious to learn about others’ experiences with this.

The interesting thing is that the increase in Melissa’s libido hasn’t really resulted in a huge increase in frequency of our intimacy (although I’d say it has increased a bit the last few months, maybe from 4 times a month to 6). What’s changed is her ravenous appetite and behavior when we do have sex.

Before, we’d generally get together at night or in the morning, when we had time, in bed or maybe the shower. It was often a quickie kind of thing, a quick connection.

Lately though Melissa seems like a different person sexually. Examples (warning, may be TMI for some) are her unexpectedly straddling me on the couch in the afternoon while I’m working, grinding on me and asking me to make her cum; making out with me (on that same couch) and asking me to use fingers to give her an orgasm — with her jeans around her ankles under a blanket (with her mom downstairs on Xmas!); asking me to get her off with her vibrator as we were randomly getting ready for bed; randomly giving me oral when I step out of the shower in front of the mirror; asking to be fucked hard and pinned down; loving having her ass tickled during oral (new for us). And just generally having a look in her eye and making comments and jokes about sex often (friends have noticed).

Again I am not complaining! But the depth of Melissa’s sexual arousal in this way has been very eye opening. I’m wondering if others have had a similar experience and how long it lasted.

My wife (53f, Melissa) and I (55m) have been married for 24 years, happily so. Our sex life has been satisfying overall – nothing too crazy, generally about once a week on average for the past 10 years I’d say. Used to be more when we were younger, before kids, etc. Melissa still looks fantastic and I’m very attracted to her.

Lately though she’s had some noticeable increases in her libido, likely due to hormones relating to perimenopause. It’s taken me by surprise (not complaining!) and I’d be curious to learn about others’ experiences with this.

The interesting thing is that the increase in Melissa’s libido hasn’t really resulted in a huge increase in frequency of our intimacy (although I’d say it has increased a bit the last few months, maybe from 4 times a month to 6). What’s changed is her ravenous appetite and behavior when we do have sex.

Before, we’d generally get together at night or in the morning, when we had time, in bed or maybe the shower. It was often a quickie kind of thing, a quick connection.

Lately though Melissa seems like a different person sexually. Examples (warning, may be TMI for some) are her unexpectedly straddling me on the couch in the afternoon while I’m working, grinding on me and asking me to make her cum; making out with me (on that same couch) and asking me to use fingers to give her an orgasm — with her jeans around her ankles under a blanket (with her mom downstairs on Xmas!); asking me to get her off with her vibrator as we were randomly getting ready for bed; randomly giving me oral when I step out of the shower in front of the mirror; asking to be fucked hard and pinned down; loving having her ass tickled during oral (new for us). And just generally having a look in her eye and making comments and jokes about sex often (friends have noticed).

Again I am not complaining! But the depth of Melissa’s sexual arousal in this way has been very eye opening. I’m wondering if others have had a similar experience and how long it lasted.