Partner said he wouldn’t see the point in trying out my fantasy. /u/stress_and_confusion Sex

Okay so I 28 F have been with my 30 M partner for over 2 years now and I’ve kept things on down low bc I was always nervous to mention some fantasies. He’s the first partner I’ve felt comfortable with to try it. I’d like to explore power dynamics and some temperature play and such (won’t give all the details but it’s nothing crazy, beginner power and degradation stuff) just to try it! I told him this bc we were talking about stuff we’d like to try and he said he didn’t see the point of trying that stuff because he never saw the appeal. He kindve shut it down and his face was very confused and almost appalled.

Not sure how to navigate this now because I feel weird and gross now for sharing the details and for wanting him to try new things but I’d never force him to do things he’s not comfortable or make him feel bad for not doing something. Idk, I just kinda wish he’d be at least open to try.

Any advice?!

Okay so I 28 F have been with my 30 M partner for over 2 years now and I’ve kept things on down low bc I was always nervous to mention some fantasies. He’s the first partner I’ve felt comfortable with to try it. I’d like to explore power dynamics and some temperature play and such (won’t give all the details but it’s nothing crazy, beginner power and degradation stuff) just to try it! I told him this bc we were talking about stuff we’d like to try and he said he didn’t see the point of trying that stuff because he never saw the appeal. He kindve shut it down and his face was very confused and almost appalled.

Not sure how to navigate this now because I feel weird and gross now for sharing the details and for wanting him to try new things but I’d never force him to do things he’s not comfortable or make him feel bad for not doing something. Idk, I just kinda wish he’d be at least open to try.

Any advice?!