My husband has a lower libido than me and its a constant issue /u/Wandering_aimlessly_ Sex

I (28F) and my husband (25M) have been married for 3 years now and he has a much lower libido than me. I want sex once a day or every other day but he only wants it around twice a week. He will go through stretches where he is agreeable to every other day but then it fades and he’s back to around twice a week. I have a high libido and its frustrating to not have my needs met. I work out and make sure I am attractive but its not about attractiveness to him, hes just not in the mood. How can we fix this? Its been a constant issue for us. He also vaguely agrees to a toy but never follows through. We work out together and spend every waking moment together so I know he is not cheating. I just don’t know what to do to fix this for us so were both happy. Any advice?

I (28F) and my husband (25M) have been married for 3 years now and he has a much lower libido than me. I want sex once a day or every other day but he only wants it around twice a week. He will go through stretches where he is agreeable to every other day but then it fades and he’s back to around twice a week. I have a high libido and its frustrating to not have my needs met. I work out and make sure I am attractive but its not about attractiveness to him, hes just not in the mood. How can we fix this? Its been a constant issue for us. He also vaguely agrees to a toy but never follows through. We work out together and spend every waking moment together so I know he is not cheating. I just don’t know what to do to fix this for us so were both happy. Any advice?