My girlfriend (8 months together) said she wanted me to manhandle her and asked me to do whatever I wanted with her. I interpreted that as penetrating her hard from every angle.
She wanted it hard, so I gave it to her hard, switching positions whenever I felt like it, spanking her, restraining her limbs, and ejaculating wherever I wanted on her. much of what we did was normal for us, but I was going much harder than usual.
She seemed into it the whole time, but after I was done, I cuddled up to her and asked her if she wanted me to do anything for her. i could finger her, give her oral, whatever she wanted, but she cried.
she cried for a couple of minutes and said it was much more intense than she expected, and she felt emotionally and physically overwhelmed
I feel awful and it feels like I misinterpreted her and went way too far, but at the same time, she didn’t give me any specific instructions other than “go hard, do whatever you want” so maybe there was some miscommunication in the sense that I did what “go hard and do your thing” means to me, but her idea of it was very different and we never aligned them beforehand, so I ended up doing things she might have said “no” to if I had presented them to her in advance.
How do we move forward from here? What do we do so that something like this doesn’t happen again?
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r/sex My girlfriend (8 months together) said she wanted me to manhandle her and asked me to do whatever I wanted with her. I interpreted that as penetrating her hard from every angle. She wanted it hard, so I gave it to her hard, switching positions whenever I felt like it, spanking her, restraining her limbs, and ejaculating wherever I wanted on her. much of what we did was normal for us, but I was going much harder than usual. She seemed into it the whole time, but after I was done, I cuddled up to her and asked her if she wanted me to do anything for her. i could finger her, give her oral, whatever she wanted, but she cried. she cried for a couple of minutes and said it was much more intense than she expected, and she felt emotionally and physically overwhelmed I feel awful and it feels like I misinterpreted her and went way too far, but at the same time, she didn’t give me any specific instructions other than “go hard, do whatever you want” so maybe there was some miscommunication in the sense that I did what “go hard and do your thing” means to me, but her idea of it was very different and we never aligned them beforehand, so I ended up doing things she might have said “no” to if I had presented them to her in advance. How do we move forward from here? What do we do so that something like this doesn’t happen again? submitted by /u/FirefighterGuilty853 [link] [comments]
My girlfriend (8 months together) said she wanted me to manhandle her and asked me to do whatever I wanted with her. I interpreted that as penetrating her hard from every angle.
She wanted it hard, so I gave it to her hard, switching positions whenever I felt like it, spanking her, restraining her limbs, and ejaculating wherever I wanted on her. much of what we did was normal for us, but I was going much harder than usual.
She seemed into it the whole time, but after I was done, I cuddled up to her and asked her if she wanted me to do anything for her. i could finger her, give her oral, whatever she wanted, but she cried.
she cried for a couple of minutes and said it was much more intense than she expected, and she felt emotionally and physically overwhelmed
I feel awful and it feels like I misinterpreted her and went way too far, but at the same time, she didn’t give me any specific instructions other than “go hard, do whatever you want” so maybe there was some miscommunication in the sense that I did what “go hard and do your thing” means to me, but her idea of it was very different and we never aligned them beforehand, so I ended up doing things she might have said “no” to if I had presented them to her in advance.
How do we move forward from here? What do we do so that something like this doesn’t happen again?
submitted by /u/FirefighterGuilty853
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