Learning how to be in a secure relationship, not sure if sending food to a guy you like is doing too much /u/Actual-Tomatillo-904 No such thing as stupid questions

I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months. We get along so well, talk about everything under the sun and hangout pretty regularly. He even burned a CD playlist for me with his favorite songs 🙂 He is sick right now and I’m thinking about door dashing some food to his house.

I haven’t been in a “real” relationship in many years and don’t know if that is doing too much… I am quite anxious when it comes to this relationship bc I don’t want to lose him. Im also a ✨recovering ✨ dismissive avoidant (I have quite literally been the textbook definition in the past ) and I’ve never experienced that feeling before. Would love to hear others thoughts. If age means anything in this scenario we are both in our mid 20’s lol.

Thanks in advanceeeeee 😊

Update with more background: he eats anything in front of him, so I wasn’t planning on asking him what he wants, just getting a soup, smoothie and cookie. But maybe I should ask him before hand or give some sort of explicit heads up? I am going to ask him if he’s planning on being home later because sometimes he hangouts at his parents but was gonna keep everything else a surprise.

I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months. We get along so well, talk about everything under the sun and hangout pretty regularly. He even burned a CD playlist for me with his favorite songs 🙂 He is sick right now and I’m thinking about door dashing some food to his house.

I haven’t been in a “real” relationship in many years and don’t know if that is doing too much… I am quite anxious when it comes to this relationship bc I don’t want to lose him. Im also a ✨recovering ✨ dismissive avoidant (I have quite literally been the textbook definition in the past ) and I’ve never experienced that feeling before. Would love to hear others thoughts. If age means anything in this scenario we are both in our mid 20’s lol.

Thanks in advanceeeeee 😊

Update with more background: he eats anything in front of him, so I wasn’t planning on asking him what he wants, just getting a soup, smoothie and cookie. But maybe I should ask him before hand or give some sort of explicit heads up? I am going to ask him if he’s planning on being home later because sometimes he hangouts at his parents but was gonna keep everything else a surprise.