I’m starting to feel like my girlfriend doesn’t enjoy sex with me. /u/StuffProper2582 Sex

My girl seems to never want to have sex. I’m very pleasure oriented and always try my best to make her finish a couple of times before I even penetrate her. She says she enjoys it every time but outside our first time she has never initiated or take steps to try and turn me on in any fashion. Most of our sex is initiated by me and I get rejected because she says she doesn’t feel sexy or she’s tired or not in the mood. I try to ask her what will get in the mood and she tells me but when i try it she just makes me stop. It’s making me feel like I’m not performing well or she doesn’t find me attractive and that I’m just not good enough for her. I don’t know how to bring this up to her because we’ve only been together for about 4 months.

My girl seems to never want to have sex. I’m very pleasure oriented and always try my best to make her finish a couple of times before I even penetrate her. She says she enjoys it every time but outside our first time she has never initiated or take steps to try and turn me on in any fashion. Most of our sex is initiated by me and I get rejected because she says she doesn’t feel sexy or she’s tired or not in the mood. I try to ask her what will get in the mood and she tells me but when i try it she just makes me stop. It’s making me feel like I’m not performing well or she doesn’t find me attractive and that I’m just not good enough for her. I don’t know how to bring this up to her because we’ve only been together for about 4 months.