I have kinks and I’m scared to ask him to do them /u/Upstairs_Pattern1239 Sex

TLDR as title says literally but with taboo kink’s like fisting.

So backstory I was with an ahole bloke for a while but omg we had some amazing sex and foreplay, the foreplay would go on for ages and it felt like he was turned on by turning me on which was hot asf!! Now a couple of things that I was really into was fisting and being tied up and just abused really…..

Fast forward to now I am with a great guy and he can fuck for days but there doesn’t seem to be a kinky guy really 😕 i bought all sorts from remote controlled panty vibes, whips, restraints and we just don’t use them and the “foreplay” is just not there, blow job, fuck and done 🙄 i want to explore these kinks of mine with him, like he’s got really big hands and all I want him to do is ram one in me and just roughly fuck me with it, while hog tied would just be a bonus!

So my question is how do I bring these taboo fantasies up with him? I’ve dropped hints for years now. I’m debating trying the yes no maybe game but can’t find a template that works as they’re all ridiculously no filled like bdsm clubs and pissing on and stuff, weird stuff for us both that would be a waste of time as if we’re going to play I’d rather things that I’d actually want to try if that makes sense. So kinky redditors, how do I do this?

TLDR as title says literally but with taboo kink’s like fisting.

So backstory I was with an ahole bloke for a while but omg we had some amazing sex and foreplay, the foreplay would go on for ages and it felt like he was turned on by turning me on which was hot asf!! Now a couple of things that I was really into was fisting and being tied up and just abused really…..

Fast forward to now I am with a great guy and he can fuck for days but there doesn’t seem to be a kinky guy really 😕 i bought all sorts from remote controlled panty vibes, whips, restraints and we just don’t use them and the “foreplay” is just not there, blow job, fuck and done 🙄 i want to explore these kinks of mine with him, like he’s got really big hands and all I want him to do is ram one in me and just roughly fuck me with it, while hog tied would just be a bonus!

So my question is how do I bring these taboo fantasies up with him? I’ve dropped hints for years now. I’m debating trying the yes no maybe game but can’t find a template that works as they’re all ridiculously no filled like bdsm clubs and pissing on and stuff, weird stuff for us both that would be a waste of time as if we’re going to play I’d rather things that I’d actually want to try if that makes sense. So kinky redditors, how do I do this?