Me(20M) and my gf(21F) are having a hard time having sex. Whenever I try to put it in she is in a lot of pain. I was a virgin but my gf isn’t when we started going out. I was actually thankful that I was having my first time with someone who actually has done this before.
One night, I tried to penetrate around 3 different times but couldn’t as she was having a lot of pain. I thought this happened as this was my first time and for her 2nd time ever doing it. A month or so later, we tried again but this time I had come prepared. I read that foreplay is key and so I did it until she was comfortable me putting it in. We did about an hour of foreplay after which I put it in successfully. I felt a lot of resistance putting it in and really had to take my time penetrating.and once I was in, her muscles got relaxed and we had a good time… Until it slipped out and we had to do that all over again. It isn’t like she doesn’t want it. She really really wants to have sex and really enjoys the foreplay but when I am putting it in she fells a lot of pain.
We have tried having sex many more times and only half of those times was I able to penetrate. She feels a lot of pain just when I about to go in. And I don’t want to continue seeing her in soo much pain. I thought that she will get used to it and we will have an easier time the next time but this happens every single time. And when ever we do it, it is always missionary as that is the only comfortable position for her. Her muscle seem to block me and I have to talk to her and relax her every time I try putting it in. Still most of the times she just stops me due to the pain.
So please help me. What can I do? I really want her to enjoy it and can’t see her in pain. Am I doing anything wrong. Should we try something new?
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r/sex Me(20M) and my gf(21F) are having a hard time having sex. Whenever I try to put it in she is in a lot of pain. I was a virgin but my gf isn’t when we started going out. I was actually thankful that I was having my first time with someone who actually has done this before. One night, I tried to penetrate around 3 different times but couldn’t as she was having a lot of pain. I thought this happened as this was my first time and for her 2nd time ever doing it. A month or so later, we tried again but this time I had come prepared. I read that foreplay is key and so I did it until she was comfortable me putting it in. We did about an hour of foreplay after which I put it in successfully. I felt a lot of resistance putting it in and really had to take my time penetrating.and once I was in, her muscles got relaxed and we had a good time… Until it slipped out and we had to do that all over again. It isn’t like she doesn’t want it. She really really wants to have sex and really enjoys the foreplay but when I am putting it in she fells a lot of pain. We have tried having sex many more times and only half of those times was I able to penetrate. She feels a lot of pain just when I about to go in. And I don’t want to continue seeing her in soo much pain. I thought that she will get used to it and we will have an easier time the next time but this happens every single time. And when ever we do it, it is always missionary as that is the only comfortable position for her. Her muscle seem to block me and I have to talk to her and relax her every time I try putting it in. Still most of the times she just stops me due to the pain. So please help me. What can I do? I really want her to enjoy it and can’t see her in pain. Am I doing anything wrong. Should we try something new? submitted by /u/RedHandedPanda [link] [comments]
Me(20M) and my gf(21F) are having a hard time having sex. Whenever I try to put it in she is in a lot of pain. I was a virgin but my gf isn’t when we started going out. I was actually thankful that I was having my first time with someone who actually has done this before.
One night, I tried to penetrate around 3 different times but couldn’t as she was having a lot of pain. I thought this happened as this was my first time and for her 2nd time ever doing it. A month or so later, we tried again but this time I had come prepared. I read that foreplay is key and so I did it until she was comfortable me putting it in. We did about an hour of foreplay after which I put it in successfully. I felt a lot of resistance putting it in and really had to take my time penetrating.and once I was in, her muscles got relaxed and we had a good time… Until it slipped out and we had to do that all over again. It isn’t like she doesn’t want it. She really really wants to have sex and really enjoys the foreplay but when I am putting it in she fells a lot of pain.
We have tried having sex many more times and only half of those times was I able to penetrate. She feels a lot of pain just when I about to go in. And I don’t want to continue seeing her in soo much pain. I thought that she will get used to it and we will have an easier time the next time but this happens every single time. And when ever we do it, it is always missionary as that is the only comfortable position for her. Her muscle seem to block me and I have to talk to her and relax her every time I try putting it in. Still most of the times she just stops me due to the pain.
So please help me. What can I do? I really want her to enjoy it and can’t see her in pain. Am I doing anything wrong. Should we try something new?
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