how to tell me boyfriend to put more effort into the nudes he sends me? /u/pinkslime6 Sex

i always send him a bunch of nudes/videos of high quality, i put a lot of effort on my poses, i dress up, i make sure the lightning is on point and i take my time for them to look super appealing for him, but he doesn’t do the same and it’s frustrating, he barely send nudes/videos back in comparison as i do, and the ones he send me are clearly low effort that is a turn off, like dick pics laying down and his feet showing in the picture, or he send a fully nude body pic with only socks on, he doesn’t shave never even tho i told him i think it’s hot, and the light is really bad (i think its very important for top tier nudes), i really like his dick but the pictures he send are kinda a turn off and nudes is all about how it looks, idk how to tell him so it doesn’t sound mean,

Also i really wonder if guys don’t notice how much effort girls put into their nudes in comparison of what they give us back, do they just don’t care or genuinely don’t notice?

i always send him a bunch of nudes/videos of high quality, i put a lot of effort on my poses, i dress up, i make sure the lightning is on point and i take my time for them to look super appealing for him, but he doesn’t do the same and it’s frustrating, he barely send nudes/videos back in comparison as i do, and the ones he send me are clearly low effort that is a turn off, like dick pics laying down and his feet showing in the picture, or he send a fully nude body pic with only socks on, he doesn’t shave never even tho i told him i think it’s hot, and the light is really bad (i think its very important for top tier nudes), i really like his dick but the pictures he send are kinda a turn off and nudes is all about how it looks, idk how to tell him so it doesn’t sound mean,

Also i really wonder if guys don’t notice how much effort girls put into their nudes in comparison of what they give us back, do they just don’t care or genuinely don’t notice?