Doubt about lasting long in bed /u/SureToBeAncient Sex

I don’t want to sound pretencious, but I last quite a long time in bed. In fact, I last as long as I want.
The problem is that multiple women (more than you could expect from a situation like this) get annoyed by this fact, because they start to suspect “I’m not attracted to them” because I don’t finish in, what they say is “the normal amount of time”.

The situation usually unfolds like this: We start engaging into sexual endevours (not only penetrative sex, also inclusing foreplay, kisses, hugs, talking and a plethora of things), and while time goes on, she seems to enjoy (I know communication is key but I also try very hard to read her body lenguage to be able to provide a pleasurable experience and stop when she seems to stops enjoying), to which I continue. Eventually, out of nothing, like if it was a hard reset, the girl stops and is suddently annoyed or seems distant (30 seconds ago she was enjoying like if we just started).
Then she goes on a rant about how it seems I’m not interested in her because I don’t finish (Usually this happens between the 40 minutes and 1:20h mark, it has happened to me once in the 2h mark)
This has happened to me exactly 5 out of the 8 times I have had sex in the last year and 3 months. With 2 of this 5 girls I was able to explain to them that I’m indeed attracted to them, is just I can choose to finish whenever I want, so if they wish me to finish, then they can comunicate it to me while we are doing it in the way they want and I will get it and proceed. But in the other cases, they left thinking this.

This made me feel weird with myself. I would like to know if there is really a “normal amount of time” you are expected to finish when engaging in casual sex, or if I was just really unlucky to face girls with very weird sexual expectations. It is important to highlight I do not have difficulty finishing, I just can decide whenever I want it to happen. Advice in this situation would be appreciated.
Also, I do not know what flair to use because I myself do not have any issue, which is paradoxically what causes the issue, so I decided to choose the one that indicates that nothing fits this case.

Thank you reddit community in advance.
-SureToBeAncient

I don’t want to sound pretencious, but I last quite a long time in bed. In fact, I last as long as I want.
The problem is that multiple women (more than you could expect from a situation like this) get annoyed by this fact, because they start to suspect “I’m not attracted to them” because I don’t finish in, what they say is “the normal amount of time”.

The situation usually unfolds like this: We start engaging into sexual endevours (not only penetrative sex, also inclusing foreplay, kisses, hugs, talking and a plethora of things), and while time goes on, she seems to enjoy (I know communication is key but I also try very hard to read her body lenguage to be able to provide a pleasurable experience and stop when she seems to stops enjoying), to which I continue. Eventually, out of nothing, like if it was a hard reset, the girl stops and is suddently annoyed or seems distant (30 seconds ago she was enjoying like if we just started).
Then she goes on a rant about how it seems I’m not interested in her because I don’t finish (Usually this happens between the 40 minutes and 1:20h mark, it has happened to me once in the 2h mark)
This has happened to me exactly 5 out of the 8 times I have had sex in the last year and 3 months. With 2 of this 5 girls I was able to explain to them that I’m indeed attracted to them, is just I can choose to finish whenever I want, so if they wish me to finish, then they can comunicate it to me while we are doing it in the way they want and I will get it and proceed. But in the other cases, they left thinking this.

This made me feel weird with myself. I would like to know if there is really a “normal amount of time” you are expected to finish when engaging in casual sex, or if I was just really unlucky to face girls with very weird sexual expectations. It is important to highlight I do not have difficulty finishing, I just can decide whenever I want it to happen. Advice in this situation would be appreciated.
Also, I do not know what flair to use because I myself do not have any issue, which is paradoxically what causes the issue, so I decided to choose the one that indicates that nothing fits this case.

Thank you reddit community in advance.
-SureToBeAncient