I’m in a relationship with a wonderful man whose libido matches mine, which has been a welcome reprise from past relationships where I’m almost always the higher libido partner. On top of that, our kinks very well align, he loves making me cum, and our sex is always just amazing, and usually pretty frequent. Recently though he’s almost completely lost his drive, so sex has become kinda rare. I understand where he’s coming from and I actually went through the same thing a few months ago due to some SSRI issues that killed my drive, and he stuck with me through that but was obviously struggling with it. So while I don’t blame him AT ALL, I just… really miss getting fucked. I miss the teasing and flirting that would quickly lead to him pinning me up against the wall. I still have that energy for him but it’s just not returned anymore. We’ve already talked extensively about this, and we agreed that he would come to me when he’s in the mood, partly because I can come on a little strong and don’t want him to feel pressured, and also because the frequent rejection is triggering feelings for me from a previous dead bedroom relationship. But it’s just not really happening. I just feel defeated and don’t know what to do.
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r/sex I’m in a relationship with a wonderful man whose libido matches mine, which has been a welcome reprise from past relationships where I’m almost always the higher libido partner. On top of that, our kinks very well align, he loves making me cum, and our sex is always just amazing, and usually pretty frequent. Recently though he’s almost completely lost his drive, so sex has become kinda rare. I understand where he’s coming from and I actually went through the same thing a few months ago due to some SSRI issues that killed my drive, and he stuck with me through that but was obviously struggling with it. So while I don’t blame him AT ALL, I just… really miss getting fucked. I miss the teasing and flirting that would quickly lead to him pinning me up against the wall. I still have that energy for him but it’s just not returned anymore. We’ve already talked extensively about this, and we agreed that he would come to me when he’s in the mood, partly because I can come on a little strong and don’t want him to feel pressured, and also because the frequent rejection is triggering feelings for me from a previous dead bedroom relationship. But it’s just not really happening. I just feel defeated and don’t know what to do. submitted by /u/Maleficent-Sea5259 [link] [comments]
I’m in a relationship with a wonderful man whose libido matches mine, which has been a welcome reprise from past relationships where I’m almost always the higher libido partner. On top of that, our kinks very well align, he loves making me cum, and our sex is always just amazing, and usually pretty frequent. Recently though he’s almost completely lost his drive, so sex has become kinda rare. I understand where he’s coming from and I actually went through the same thing a few months ago due to some SSRI issues that killed my drive, and he stuck with me through that but was obviously struggling with it. So while I don’t blame him AT ALL, I just… really miss getting fucked. I miss the teasing and flirting that would quickly lead to him pinning me up against the wall. I still have that energy for him but it’s just not returned anymore. We’ve already talked extensively about this, and we agreed that he would come to me when he’s in the mood, partly because I can come on a little strong and don’t want him to feel pressured, and also because the frequent rejection is triggering feelings for me from a previous dead bedroom relationship. But it’s just not really happening. I just feel defeated and don’t know what to do.
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